The cosmic clock is striking a powerful chord on February 17th, 2026. This is no ordinary lunation; we are standing at the intersection of a Total Solar Eclipse, the Aquarius New Moon, and the electrifying arrival of the Lunar New Year: The Year of the Fire Horse. While our previous journey through the Snake year taught us the power of quiet transformation and shedding skins, the energy of 2026 is an explosion of heat, speed, and radical innovation. Aquarius, the 11th sign of the zodiac, is the visionary, the rebel, and the humanitarian. When the New Moon enters this air sign, it pushes us to step out of the “status quo” and into a future that we design ourselves.
This New Moon is a bold invitation to embrace your “weird,” your unique frequency, and your most revolutionary ideas. We are being asked to look at the collective and ask: How can I use my individual genius to help the world breathe again? With the added punch of an eclipse and the Fire Horse, the “go with the flow” energy of the past is being replaced by a “create the flow” mandate.
New Moon & Solar Eclipse: The Great Reset
Every month, the New Moon marks a beginning, but a Solar Eclipse (happening alongside this New Moon) is like a New Moon on cosmic steroids. Eclipses are “wild cards.” They act as sudden resets, often closing doors that were meant to be shut and blowing open windows of opportunity we didn’t even know existed.
In the dark of this New Moon, we aren’t just planting seeds; we are planting lightning bolts. The eclipse energy creates a “collapse of time,” where the intentions you set now can manifest with startling speed. This is a time to reflect, yes, but also a time to be incredibly precise. The universe is listening with a megaphone. Use this “void” to cleanse your energetic field of any lingering 2025 stagnation. Remember: an eclipse doesn’t just ask you to change; it often demands it.
The Solar Eclipse: Expect the Unexpected
A Total Solar Eclipse in the sign of the rebel (Aquarius) is like a cosmic “power surge.” The lights go out for a moment, and when they come back on, the room looks completely different. Because this is an Aquarius eclipse, the “resets” will likely happen in your social circles, your technology, and your long-term dreams.
My Master Rule for this Eclipse: Underschedule your Life. Eclipses are notorious for “fated” events—sudden endings or “lucky” breaks that feel like they came out of nowhere. If you have your day planned down to the minute, you won’t have room for the “Electric Surprise” the universe is trying to send you.
Do not try to manifest or “push” energy during the actual window of the eclipse. Instead, become a Stationary Observer. Watch who leaves your life. Watch what ideas suddenly feel “dead” to you. In the shadow of the eclipse, the truth is revealed without its “mask.” It is a time of The Great Severing. If something falls away tonight, let it go. The Fire Horse doesn’t look back at the dust it leaves behind; it only looks at the open road ahead.
The Year of the Fire Horse: 2026’s Wild Spirit
This New Moon marks the beginning of the Lunar New Year, and we are galloping out of the subtle, internal Year of the Snake and into the thunderous Year of the Fire Horse. In the Chinese Zodiac, the Fire Horse is a rare and legendary combination that occurs only once every 60 years.
The Fire Horse is characterized by unbridled passion, extreme independence, and a fierce “can-do” spirit. This is an “action” year. If the Snake was about planning and shedding, the Fire Horse is about the stampede toward freedom. * Dynamic Energy: Expect a year where things move fast. The Fire Horse doesn’t like to wait.
Social Revolution: Combined with Aquarius, this year is likely to see massive shifts in social justice, technology, and how we connect as a global community.
Personal Power: This is a year to be bold. The Fire Horse rewards those who are brave enough to lead and those who refuse to be tamed by outdated societal “rules.”
Who is the Water Bearer?
Aquarius is often mistaken for a water sign because of its symbol—the Water Bearer—but it is firmly an Air Sign. Aquarius represents the movement of Knowledge, Intellect, and Collective Consciousness. The Water Bearer is Ganymede, the youthful cupbearer to the gods. He pours out the “water” of wisdom and innovation to the parched lips of humanity. Aquarius is the scientist, the activist, and the eccentric aunt of the zodiac. It looks toward the horizon (the 11th house of hopes and dreams) and sees a world where equality and technology harmonize.
The Constellation of Aquarius: The Eagle and the Cupbearer
While we often focus on the Water Bearer pouring out wisdom, we cannot forget the “how” of the story. In Greek mythology, Ganymede—the most beautiful of mortals—didn’t walk to Mount Olympus; he was carried there in the talons of Zeus, disguised as a massive Eagle. This is the hidden “Air” medicine of Aquarius. It represents the Sudden Uplift. Just as the Eagle snatched Ganymede from his mundane life as a shepherd to serve the Gods, this New Moon and the Year of the Fire Horse act as our “Celestial Eagle.” They are here to pluck us out of our comfort zones and carry us to a higher perspective.
The Eagle represents the High Vision—the ability to see the entire landscape of your life from 30,000 feet. Combined with the Fire Horse, this is a call to rise above the petty dramas of the collective and look at the “Big Picture” of your evolution. Are you still herding sheep at the base of the mountain, or are you ready to fly? This month, the “Eagle” of the Eclipse may swoop down to change your life in an instant. Don’t fight the ascent. Trust the talons of change; they are carrying you to your rightful throne.
Themes for the Aquarius New Moon & Eclipse
This lunation is a electric invitation to step into a future defined by Radical Authenticity.
Innovation & Tech: Finding new solutions to old problems.
Collective Healing: Using your voice for those who have been silenced.
Rebellion with a Purpose: Breaking the rules that no longer serve the “greater good.”
Detached Logic: Being able to look at your life like a scientist to see what’s actually working.
The “Oddball” Factor: Celebrating the parts of you that don’t fit in.
What to be Cautious of
With the Fire Horse and an Eclipse in play, the shadow side is Impulsivity.
Arrogance: Avoid the “I know better than everyone” trap. True Aquarius energy is about collaboration, not a dictatorship.
Burnout: The Fire Horse energy is intense. If you try to sprint 24/7, you will crash. Grounding is your best friend this month.
Hastiness: Eclipses bring “fated” events. Try not to force a door open—if it’s meant for you, the Horse will carry you through it.
Emotional Detachment: Aquarius can sometimes be “all head and no heart.” Don’t forget to check in with your feelings while you’re busy saving the world.
Correspondences for the Aquarius New Moon
Planets: Uranus (Chaos/Change) and Saturn (Structure/Time).
Element: Air (The Breath of New Ideas).
Animals: The Horse (Strength/Speed), The Eagle (Vision), and the Phoenix (Rebirth from Fire).
Colors: Electric Blue, Silver, and Iridescent Violet.
Herbs/Flowers: Star Anise (for vision), Pine (for longevity), and Orchid (for uniqueness).
Stones: Amethyst, Moldavite (very potent for eclipses), Aquamarine, and Turquoise.
Deities: Prometheus (who brought fire to man), Athena (Wisdom), and The Fates (Eclipses).
How to Connect & Create Your Blueprint
The Future-Self Letter: Write a letter from yourself one year in the future. Describe the “Impossible” things you’ve achieved in the Year of the Fire Horse.
Tech-Magic: Use this time to clean your digital space. Delete old files, unfollow accounts that drain you, and “re-code” your social media to be a place of inspiration.
Fire & Ice Ritual: Light a gold candle (for the Horse/Sun) while sitting with a bowl of ice (for the winter dark). As the ice melts, visualize your old limitations dissolving into the heat of your new ambitions.
Astro-Travel Meditation: Join our DiviNation Academy LIVE for a journey into the “Hall of the Architect” to see your 2026 blueprints.
Community Service: In the spirit of Aquarius, do one thing for the collective. Donate, volunteer, or simply help a neighbor.
Shadow Work Questions for the Aquarius New Moon
The Saboteur’s Speed: Where am I rushing into “action” just to avoid the discomfort of being still with my own thoughts? Is my “Fire Horse” energy actually just anxiety in disguise?
The Eagle’s Eye: If I looked at my life from the Eagle’s perspective, which of my current “problems” would look like tiny, insignificant specks? What is the one thing that actually matters from up there?
The Rebellion Check: Am I rebelling against the “system” because I have a better vision, or am I just being contrary because I’m afraid of belonging to anything?
The Fated Exit: If the Eclipse were to remove one thing from my life tonight to make room for my 2026 legacy, what would I be most relieved to see go? (Be honest—the relief tells you it was a burden).
When do I hide my true self to “fit in” with the herd? What am I afraid will happen if I stand out?
Am I using my “independence” as an excuse to avoid intimacy or vulnerability?
What “status quo” in my personal life is actually a cage I built for myself?
If I weren’t afraid of being called “crazy,” what would I start creating today?
How can I balance my personal fire (Fire Horse) with my service to others (Aquarius)?
The Invocation of the Fire Horse
This is meant to be spoken with strength and pace. It is a call to action to welcome the first day of the Lunar New Year (February 17th).
“I stand at the threshold of the Great Gallop. I summon the spirit of the Fire Horse—the untamed flame, the swift wind, the heartbeat of the Sun. You who move through the world with speed and sovereignty, ignite my blood with your courage. I release the slow skin of the Snake; I shed the silence of the winter frost. I claim my place in the stampede of the new age.
Burn away my hesitation. Melt the chains of my ‘shoulds.’ Carry me across the horizon of the impossible. I am bold. I am independent. I am the driver of my own destiny. Under the shadow of the Eclipse and the light of the Fire, I run with the Horse toward a future I have chosen. The race is on, and I am already winning. And so it is”
The Aquarius Eclipse: “The Great Severing” Release
Because this is a Solar Eclipse in Aquarius, the focus is on breaking collective conditioning and “fated” endings. Use this during your ritual to clear space before setting Horse-year intentions.
The Practice:
The Visualization: Close your eyes and see yourself connected to a massive web—the “Collective Mind.” Notice the silver threads connecting you to old roles, outdated friend groups, or societal expectations that feel like heavy “roles” you have to play.
The Severing: Imagine the Moon moving in front of the Sun, creating a “ring of fire” (the Annular Eclipse). Use that ring of fire as a cosmic blade.
The Words: Speak these aloud as you visualize the threads being cut:
“In the shadow of the Sun, I see the truth. I sever the threads of obligation that no longer feed my soul. I release the role of the ‘People Pleaser.’ I release the mask of ‘Fitting In.’ I break the karmic loops of my ancestors that have kept me small. As the light dims, the old script dissolves. I am no longer a character in someone else’s story. I am the Architect. I am the Outsider. I am Free.”
The Grounding: After the “cut,” place your hands on the floor. Imagine the excess “electric” energy of the Eclipse draining into the earth so you don’t “crash out” from the intensity.
Final Thoughts
The Aquarius New Moon and Total Solar Eclipse is a portal. As we enter the Year of the Fire Horse, the universe is handing you the keys to the kingdom of the future. The old skins are gone; the rubble is cleared. Now, with the speed of the horse and the vision of the water-bearer, it is time to build a reality that reflects your highest truth.
The mountain is behind us; the horizon is before us. Will you gallop into the light?
I am Kayreign, the Divine Oracle of the Gods and Keeper of Mysteries, a solitary grey magic practitioner with over 15 years of experience walking the sacred paths of the unseen. As a mystic and relentless seeker of all knowledge, I weave together the threads of every magical tradition—light and dark, ancient and modern—to uncover the universal truths that bind us to the cosmos. My mission is to restore and re-enchant magic in this realm, igniting its spark in every soul I encounter, and guiding you to embrace the full spectrum of your being.
My work is rooted in the power of duality, honoring the dance between shadow and light as equal partners in your spiritual journey. I hold space for you to explore all magic paths and practices, drawing from the vast tapestry of mystical wisdom to help you uncover your unique magic and sacred contracts. As the Divine Oracle of the Gods, I channel divine insights to illuminate your path; as the Keeper of Mysteries, I guide you into the depths of the unknown, where true transformation awaits.
When you work with me, you’ll learn to live in energetic balance, embracing your darkness as a source of power, not just a stepping stone to the light. I’ll hold up a mirror to reflect your authentic self—unmasked, raw, and whole—inviting you to face your past wounds, traumas, and hurts with courage. Together, we’ll alchemize every chapter of your story, dark and light, into a blazing internal flame that lights your way on even the coldest nights. Through this process, you’ll find alignment with your purpose, release what holds you back, and step fully into your power.
Come join me for community, knowledge, and to restore the enchantment of magic in yourself and life today!
The February full moon of 2026 roars into the skies with a fiery burst of passion to ignite our hearts’ desires amidst the frozen winter landscape. We find this full moon under the sign of Leo on February 1st. Despite the nickname for February being the Snow Moon, this lunation is sure to bring the heat as it radiates Leo energy and shines a bright flame on our true “heart’s desires.”
This Full Snow Moon in February 2026 strips everything down to bare bones. It forces us to see reality with harsh, cold clarity while simultaneously gifting us a burst of fiery hope for the coming spring. When the moon is in Leo, you are invited to celebrate your wins and let go of the “hiding” that keeps your light dimmed. Leo is about creative self-expression, leadership, and the courage to be seen. Come join me on a frozen winter walk under the fiery full moon light as the Lion roars into the 2026 skies.
The Snow Moon: Resilience in the Stillness
During February, we experience the deepest freeze of winter. Living in Minnesota, I’ve learned you never judge a winter until you’ve survived February. Historically, this was the “Hungry Month”—resources were low, and the snow determined your survival. This is why it is called the Snow Moon.
The Snow Moon is relentless. It asks: How bad do you want it? It forces you to look into the unyielding white of the ice with harsh clarity. But this year, Leo adds a layer of internal warmth. Use this time of stillness to your advantage. Strengthen your spirit for the “thaw” ahead. The best plans take shape in these quiet, clear, and still moments.
Ancient Names for this Moon:
Hungry Month (Kagali) – Cherokee
Storm Moon or Ice Moon – Celtic
Moon of Purification and Renewal – Hopi
Bald Eagle Moon – Cree
Bear Moon – Ojibwe
Who is Leo? The Radiant Sovereign
So who is Leo? As the fifth sign of the zodiac ruled by the sun, Leo is the Zodiac sign shining a spotlight on your life with bold roaring, radiant, and confident energy. Leo is all about stepping into the spotlight and owning your own power. Claiming what is yours with courage, bravery, and conviction. Being ruled by the fifth house Leo connects you to what makes you feel good, such as attention, orgasms, or the fulfillment of a creative project. It’s the sign that shines a bright light on your inner talents, your leadership abilities, and the courage you have to playfully create.
The Leo Constellation
The Leo constellation sits between Cancer the crab to the west and Virgo the maiden to the east. It is located south of the Big Dipper. It is one of the brightest constellations located in the Northern celestial hemisphere. This may be due to the fact that one of the brightest stars in the night sky sits in the heart of this constellation; Regulus. What’s unique about the Leo constellation is it contains many bright stars, many of which were individually identified by the ancients. It’s also one of the few constellations that is visible from pretty much anywhere on Earth, except for Antarctica.
Leo is one of the oldest known and recognized constellations in the sky with many different myths surrounding it. Archaeological evidence suggests that Mesopotamians had a constellation similar to Leo as early as 4000 BC. The Persians knew the constellation as Shir or Ser, Babylonians called it UR.GU.LA (“the great lion”), Syrians knew it as Aryo, and the Turks as Artan. In Sumeria, Leo may have represented the monster Humbaba, who was killed by Gilgamesh. The ancient Egyptians associated Leo with the flooding of the Nile, which occurred during the hottest time of year, when the sun entered Leo. Maybe that’s why the sphinx overlooks the Nile and is half lion?
The most commonly known myth about it’s placement among the stars would have to come from the Greeks. The Greeks associated Leo with the Nemean lion, the beast defeated by Heracles during the first of his twelve labors. Man Hercules is responsible for quite a few constellations being placed in the sky. Anyway, the Nemean lion lived in a cave in Nemea, a town located to the south-west of Corinth. It was terrorizing the local people who could not defeat it because, of it’s impenetrable skin. Heracles could not defeat the lion with arrows, so he trapped it in its cave, grappled with the beast and eventually defeated it by strangling it with his bare hands. He used the lion’s claws to cut off its pelt, and then wore the pelt as a cloak, complete with the lion’s head. From that day forward Hercules wore the pelt as his armor. The cloak both protected Heracles and made him appear even more fearsome. Leo was placed in the sky by Zeus as a reminder of Hercules’ heroism and bravery.
There is another Greek myth about this constellation though, which may be the inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. The poet Ovid’s tale of Pyramus and Thisbe. Both sets of parents of this young couple considered them too young to marry and stopped them seeing each other. However, the pair made arrangements to meet secretly by a mulberry tree with white berries. When Thisbe arrived at the appointed place, a lion sprang out from some bushes and she ran away in fright. Unfortunately, her veil fluttered to the ground as she ran and the lion, bloody from its latest kill, pounced on it. A short time later Pyramus arrived, saw his beloved’s bloody veil and believed that she had been killed. Totally distraught, and unable to face life without her, he threw himself on his sword. As he lay dying, Thisbe returned, took his sword and killed herself. The blood of the tragic pair colored the berries of the mulberry tree red, and so they remain to this day. Some suggest that Zeus placed Thisbe’s veil in the heavens as Coma Berenices.
2026 Cosmic Energies: Uranus, Chiron, and the Fire Horse
Uranus & the Winds of Awakening
Uranus is active during this Full Moon, bringing surprises and “eureka” moments. As the planet of awakening, it might shake the ground beneath you. Ask yourself: How am I being called to break free from old, rigid versions of myself?
Chiron the Wounded Healer
Chiron reminds us that our wounds don’t disqualify us from leadership; they make us compassionate leaders. If old pains surface under this bright moon, know that Leo’s fire is here to cauterize and heal, not just to burn.
The Transition: From Snake to Fire Horse
We are currently in the final stretch of the Year of the Snake, preparing to gallop into the Year of the Fire Horse later this month. This Full Moon acts as the bridge. The wisdom and shedding of the Snake are meeting the wild, fiery independence of the Horse. It is a potent time for transition!
From Duality to Sovereignty: The Free Witch
In the past, I identified as a Grey Witch, focusing heavily on the duality of light and dark. But as I have evolved into a Free Witch, my perspective has shifted toward sovereignty and liberation.
Being a Free Witch means I am no longer bound by the “shoulds” of tradition or the rigid binary of “this or that.” I work with the energy that is present, authentically and without apology.
Leo & the Free Witch: Leo is the ultimate archetype of sovereignty. As a Free Witch, I use this Leo Full Moon to celebrate my own unique magic—magic that doesn’t need to be labeled or validated by anyone else.
Authenticity over Performance: While Leo loves a spotlight, the Free Witch uses that light to see their own truth clearly, rather than performing for an audience. This moon is about the freedom to roar your truth, even if it changes tomorrow.
What to be cautious of this Leo full moon
During the Full Moon in Leo, it’s important to avoid impulsivity, getting swept up in drama, or seeking excessive validation from others. Leo energy can be intense, and it can burn bright and hot as hell at times, just like the sun whole rules this sign. It is vital to take the time to balance it and not let it burn too hot, by staying grounded and focused on your authentic self. Be mindful of not letting your pride get the better of you and being overly focused on your own achievements or image. Tapping into Leo’s fire to ignite our self confidence is something our soul needs but, don’t let your fire get so hot and bright that you burn others around you. Avoid the temptation to act out of ego or let others’ opinions steer your path. Be open to constructive criticism and don’t dismiss feedback as personal attacks. Control the fire of Leo burning around you and keep it’s focus on self-love, playfulness, and creative empowerment.
How to Connect to the Snow Full Moon in Leo
This is a wonderful time for Self-Love rituals, Truth spells, and Bold Creativity. * Fire & Ice Magic: Use snow to represent what you are “thawing” out, and a gold candle to represent the heart’s desire you are igniting.
Solar Magic: Even though it’s a Full Moon, Leo is ruled by the Sun. Honor the “Sun at Night” by focusing on your internal warmth.
Authenticity Journaling: Write down three things you’ve been hiding about your true self and read them aloud to the moon.
The Lion’s Roar: Literally find a private space and let out a roar or a loud shout to clear the stagnant winter energy from your throat chakra.
self care rituals and things to build your self worth
Abundance spells-You can learn how to connect to abundance with my in depth guide here
Protection magic and spells– To learn more about how to do protection magic you can watch part 1 and part 2 of my classes with Divination academy on YouTube
Release unhealthy patterns and wounds related to your mother
Cast truth spells
Make a spell jar-to connect to the zodiac Leo. To learn how to make spell jars you can purchase my ebook here
Work with the element Fire in your magical workings and spells- You can learn more about how to do that here
Connect to the energy of February. You can read my extensive guide here
Make a simmer pot-clarity, warmth for the home, creativity, fun, courage, self love
Journal– focus on your self worth, creativity, clarity on your goals, leadership skills, situations or people you need to have courage with in your life
Dance, move your body, open your hips
Show off some of your creative piece of work to others
Speak up and use your own authentic voice
Go to a social event
Correspondences for the snow full moon in Leo
First, what is a correspondence? A correspondence is an item or symbol that is meant to connect you to a specific energy thru it’s representation. It is seen also as an item to respect, honor, and venerate that energy as well whether it be a deity, an archetype energy , or the zodiac energy the moon is currently in like for Leo, I will list below for you to use. Remember to follow your intuition with the correspondences you choose to work with and that you can always use any that correspond to the moon itself as well.
During the Full Moon in Leo, your focus should be on assessing your self worth, Embracing your courage, igniting creativity, and stepping into leadership roles with conviction This is an ideal time to tune into your inner fire, and acknowledge any emotions that have been burning beneath the surface, and create a safe space for your inner child to feel heard. Whether you do it thru meditation, shadow work, or divination like tarot; below is a list of prompts and topics to connect with the energy of the snow full moon in Leo . If you would like to learn more about shadow work you can purchase my eBook here; you can book me for a 1:1 session as your guide here; and you can watch my free class previously taught on it through DiviNation here.
What does it feel like to trust my own “roar” without seeking permission?
Where am I being “Free” in my magic, and where am I still following rules that don’t serve me?
What “heart’s desire” has been frozen all winter, and how can I start to unthaw it today?
How can I lead my own life with more conviction and less ego?
If I were completely unafraid of judgment, what creative project would I start right now?
Final Thoughts
As the silvery light of this Leo Snow Moon spills across the frozen landscape, remember that it offers more than just a moment of reflection—it offers a divine opportunity for Sovereignty. This isn’t just about self-love; it’s about Authentic Liberation. In the past, we may have looked for the balance between the light and the dark, but as a Free Witch, you are now invited to realize that you are the fire that creates the light in the first place.
The Leo Full Moon acts as a celestial spotlight, illuminating anything that dims your unique vibration. It helps you identify the thoughts, words, and outdated traditions that have been acting as heavy weights on your spirit. If you feel like your light has been muffled by the “shoulds” of the world, this is the lunation where you burn those contracts. Use this fiery energy to align not just with your potential, but with your current power.
But don’t ignore the bite of the Snow Moon. The fire of Leo doesn’t exist in a vacuum; it is burning in the heart of winter. This moon brings a gift of harsh, cold clarity. It allows you to see the reality of your life without the fog of wishful thinking. While Leo wants to play and create, the Snow Moon asks: “What is sturdy enough to survive the freeze?” Take this time to look at your relationships, your goals, and your magical practice with a clear eye.
Where have you been performing instead of living?
Where has your fire been used to keep others warm while you shivered in the cold?
What parts of your “Free Witch” path are calling for you to take up more space?
As we stand on the bridge between the shedding wisdom of the Snake and the wild, unbridled spirit of the Fire Horse, let this moon be your initiation. Let the cold clarify your vision and the fire fuel your voice. The Snow Moon in Leo doesn’t just help you survive the winter; it empowers you to command it.
Clear away the old. Burn away the false. Roar your truth into the stillness of the night. You are free, you are sovereign, and your light is unquenchable.
I am Kayreign, the Divine Oracle of the Gods and Keeper of Mysteries, a solitary grey magic practitioner with over 15 years of experience walking the sacred paths of the unseen. As a mystic and relentless seeker of all knowledge, I weave together the threads of every magical tradition—light and dark, ancient and modern—to uncover the universal truths that bind us to the cosmos. My mission is to restore and re-enchant magic in this realm, igniting its spark in every soul I encounter, and guiding you to embrace the full spectrum of your being.
My work is rooted in the power of duality, honoring the dance between shadow and light as equal partners in your spiritual journey. I hold space for you to explore all magic paths and practices, drawing from the vast tapestry of mystical wisdom to help you uncover your unique magic and sacred contracts. As the Divine Oracle of the Gods, I channel divine insights to illuminate your path; as the Keeper of Mysteries, I guide you into the depths of the unknown, where true transformation awaits.
When you work with me, you’ll learn to live in energetic balance, embracing your darkness as a source of power, not just a stepping stone to the light. I’ll hold up a mirror to reflect your authentic self—unmasked, raw, and whole—inviting you to face your past wounds, traumas, and hurts with courage. Together, we’ll alchemize every chapter of your story, dark and light, into a blazing internal flame that lights your way on even the coldest nights. Through this process, you’ll find alignment with your purpose, release what holds you back, and step fully into your power.
Come join me for community, knowledge, and to restore the enchantment of magic in yourself and life today!
The 2026 Chinese New Year, celebrated alongside the Lunar New Year, falls on February 17th. Marking the end of winter and the official gallop into the spring season, Chinese New Year celebrates looking to the future for new beginnings with themes of happiness, health, family, and good fortune. This year marks the arrival of the Fire Horse, a legendary and intense combination that appears only once every 60 years.
While last year was about the slow, strategic slither of the Snake, the Year of the Horse is about freedom, raw power, and the heat of passion. It signifies a time of rapid movement, social expansion, and the courage to live out loud. It embodies a vibrant, untamed, and sometimes volatile energy capable of charging through obstacles and lighting a fire under our biggest dreams. Come with me and race through this blog post to learn how to welcome the Lunar New Year and harness the thundering energy that it holds.
First, what is the Chinese New Year?
Of all the traditional Chinese festivals, the New Year is the most elaborate and important. This is a time to congratulate ourselves on having passed through another year, a time to finish out the old, and to welcome in the new. It is also known as the Spring Festival due to its timing with the changing of the seasons, and the Lunar New Year because it starts on the new moon.
When is the Chinese New Year celebrated?
The Chinese New Year is celebrated on the first day of the First Moon of the lunar calendar. In 2026, it falls on February 17th. Traditionally, the holiday lasts sixteen days, culminating in the Lantern Festival on March 4th. This is a time for family reunions, visiting relatives, and stressing the importance of family ties. The celebrations include beautiful outfits, delicious food, and colorful decorations intended to encourage hope and prosperity.
History & The Myth of Nian
The history of Chinese New Year dates back over 3,500 years. The most popular myth involves Nian, a beast that would appear every year to eat villagers. One year, an old man used red paper lanterns, red clothing, and loud fireworks to scare the beast away. To this day, the color red and the setting of firecrackers are essential for protecting the home and welcoming good luck.
Common Traditions for the New Year
Sweeping of the Grounds: Deep clean your home before New Year’s Day to sweep away the “dust” of the old year. Put your brooms away on the actual day so you don’t accidentally sweep away your new luck!
Lai-See (Red Envelopes): Children and elders exchange red envelopes containing “lucky money.” Remember: only clean, unwrinkled bills should be used, and avoid the number four (which sounds like the word for death). Numbers with eight are highly auspicious!
Lion & Dragon Dances: These acrobatic performances ward off evil spirits and bring prosperity to the community. The Dragon, specifically, chases a “Pearl of Wisdom,” representing a quest for truth and knowledge.
Lucky Chinese New Year Foods
Fish: The word for fish sounds like “surplus,” inviting abundance.
Dumplings: Shaped like ancient currency (ingots) to attract wealth.
Longevity Noodles: Do not cut them! Long, unbroken noodles represent a long, healthy life.
Tangerines & Oranges: Their golden color and name (sounding like “luck”) correlate to wealth.
Nian Gao (Year Cake): Symbolizes progress and “rising” higher in the coming year.
The Year of the Fire Horse
The Horse, being the seventh animal in the zodiac, takes center stage in 2026. Horses are everything you need to be this year: independent, energetic, and completely unbridled. They don’t hide in the grass; they run across the open plains. The Horse is a symbol of triumph, nobility, and the “main character” energy we all need to manifest our goals.
How the Element Fire Affects the Horse In Chinese astrology, each animal is paired with an element. 2026 is a Fire year. Because the Horse is naturally a “fire” sign, this year is a Double Fire year! This creates a massive “Yang” energy that is bright, aggressive, and fast-moving. The last Fire Horse year was 1966—a year of social revolution and upheaval. Expect 2026 to be a year where the status quo is challenged and personal freedom becomes the priority.
The Grey Witch and Duality Since I am a grey witch, I look for the duality. The Fire Horse provides the warmth of a hearth but also the danger of a wildfire.
The Light: Rapid manifestation, sudden success, and the courage to leave a “cage” (like a bad job or relationship).
The Shadow: Impulsivity and a short fuse. The Horse has a powerful kick, and Fire has a lethal burn. Use your power wisely. This is a year where the veil is glowing; protection magic is needed to ensure your passion doesn’t turn into burnout.
Correspondences for 2026
Planet: Mars and the Sun
Element: Yang Fire
Symbol: Red lanterns, horseshoes, sunflowers, gold ingots, torches
Colors: Crimson, Gold, Bright Orange, White
Herbs/Flowers: Cinnamon, Ginger, Chili Pepper, Bay Leaves (for victory), Sunflowers, Peppermint
Stones/Crystals: Carnelian, Sunstone, Fire Agate, Red Jasper, Ruby, Citrine
Food/Drinks: Spicy foods, oranges, fish, dumplings, “Spirit” based drinks or fiery teas
How to Celebrate with the Fire Horse
Set Intentions with Speed: Write your goals on bay leaves and burn them—Fire Horse energy manifests fast.
Road Opening Magic: Use the Horse’s power to “stampede” through any blockages in your path.
Movement Rituals: Dancing, running, or even driving to new places can help move stagnant energy.
Update Your Altar: Use red and gold candles, horse imagery, and sunstones.
Practice Gratitude: Give thanks for the stamina you’ve gained over the last year.
The Unbridled Path: A Fire Horse Road Opening Ritual
In the Year of the Fire Horse, we don’t just open doors—we break them down. If you feel stuck, stagnant, or like you’ve been running in place, use this ritual to harness the “Double Fire” energy of 2026 to clear your path.
Best Time to Perform: The morning of the Lunar New Year (February 17th) or during the first New Moon in the Year of the Horse.
What You’ll Need:
A Red Candle (for the Fire element and good fortune)
A piece of paper and a black pen
Cinnamon or Ginger powder (to “heat up” the manifestation)
A small bowl of water
A key (one you no longer use, or a charm)
The Ritual:
Clear the Way: Start by physically cleaning your front doorway. Sweep the threshold outward to remove any lingering “Snake” energy from the previous year.
Draft the Map: On your paper, write down the one major thing standing in your way. Be specific. Underneath it, draw a simple symbol of a horse or a horseshoe facing upward.
Ignite the Flame: Light your red candle. Hold your hands over the flame (at a safe distance) and feel the heat. Visualize the Fire Horse thundering toward your obstacle, hooves striking the ground, turning that barrier into dust.
The Cinnabar Kick: Sprinkle a pinch of cinnamon or ginger onto the paper and say:“Fast as flame and strong as steel, turn the spoke and turn the wheel. No more waiting, no more stalls, the Fire Horse breaks through the walls.”
Charge the Key: Pass your key through the candle smoke and then dip it quickly into the water to “temper” the energy. Hold the key and imagine it glowing with orange light.
The Release: Take the paper and safely burn it in the candle flame (use a fire-safe bowl). As the smoke rises, imagine your path clearing for miles ahead.
The Anchor: Carry the key with you in your pocket or bag for the first 16 days of the New Year (until the Lantern Festival) to remind yourself that the way is open and you are free to run.
Final Thoughts on the Energy of 2026
2026 isn’t here to ask for your permission. The Snake taught us how to shed our skin in the dark; now, the Fire Horse demands we show the world who we are in the light. You are a powerful, sovereign entity, and sovereign beings don’t stay in the stable—they run.
This is the year to be “too much,” to be “too loud,” and to be unapologetically fast. Shed the last of that old skin and gallop into your power. If someone threatens your freedom or your way of life, do not be afraid to show your teeth and let them feel the strength of your kick. The path ahead is bright and fiery—ride it with grace and never look back.
I am Kayreign, the Divine Oracle of the Gods and Keeper of Mysteries, a solitary grey magic practitioner with over 15 years of experience walking the sacred paths of the unseen. As a mystic and relentless seeker of all knowledge, I weave together the threads of every magical tradition—light and dark, ancient and modern—to uncover the universal truths that bind us to the cosmos. My mission is to restore and re-enchant magic in this realm, igniting its spark in every soul I encounter, and guiding you to embrace the full spectrum of your being.
My work is rooted in the power of duality, honoring the dance between shadow and light as equal partners in your spiritual journey. I hold space for you to explore all magic paths and practices, drawing from the vast tapestry of mystical wisdom to help you uncover your unique magic and sacred contracts. As the Divine Oracle of the Gods, I channel divine insights to illuminate your path; as the Keeper of Mysteries, I guide you into the depths of the unknown, where true transformation awaits.
When you work with me, you’ll learn to live in energetic balance, embracing your darkness as a source of power, not just a stepping stone to the light. I’ll hold up a mirror to reflect your authentic self—unmasked, raw, and whole—inviting you to face your past wounds, traumas, and hurts with courage. Together, we’ll alchemize every chapter of your story, dark and light, into a blazing internal flame that lights your way on even the coldest nights. Through this process, you’ll find alignment with your purpose, release what holds you back, and step fully into your power.
Come join me for community, knowledge, and to restore the enchantment of magic in yourself and life today!
The Wolf Full Moon in Cancer arrives on Saturday, January 3, 2026, at 4:02 a.m. CST. This powerful lunation—the final dazzling Supermoon of the series—howls into the cold winter night, inviting us to retreat into our emotional sanctuaries, honor our deepest instincts, and nurture the foundations of our lives as the new year begins.
This full moon activates the energy of the cardinal water sign, Cancer, bringing a tender focus to themes of home, family, emotional security, and ancestral roots. Full moons are always a time of culmination and release; this one asks us to harvest the emotional growth of the past six months and release any outdated protective shells that prevent us from being truly vulnerable and supported.
Let this Wolf Full Moon in Cancer guide you to honor your pack, protect your inner peace, and intentionally nurture the seeds of 2026, ensuring your heart is as resilient and warm as a winter hearth.
Full Moon: What It Is and Why We Honor It
Every month, the full moon brings the lunar cycle to its peak, bathing the night in powerful, visible light. This phase marks a time of culmination, manifestation, and release. It is when the seeds planted during the preceding new moon (the New Moon in Sagittarius) come to full expression, illuminating what has grown—and what needs to be pruned.
The full moon is a sacred time to pause, acknowledge your emotional resilience, and cleanse your energy of anything hindering your sense of safety. This isn’t just a celestial event—it’s a call to shed old defenses and prepare for the quiet work of building a soul-led life.
Cancer: The Sign of the Hearth and the Heart
Each full moon is shaped by its relationship with its opposing zodiac sign; while the Sun is currently positioned in structured, ambitious Capricorn, the Moon reaches its full expression in the intuitive and emotional sign of Cancer. Cancer, the fourth sign of the zodiac, is uniquely powerful during a full moon because it is the only sign ruled by the Moon itself, making this a homecoming of sorts for our lunar energy. Symbolized by the Crab, Cancer embodies the rhythmic cycle of the tides and the necessity of a safe harbor, offering the warmth of the home and a fierce, protective instinct toward the family or “pack”. As a cardinal water sign, Cancer does not just sit with feelings; it initiates deep emotional connections and actively seeks to build a sanctuary for the spirit. This sign governs the Fourth House of home, roots, and heritage, serving as a cosmic reminder to align our external ambitions with our internal, foundational needs for comfort, privacy, and true belonging.
Cancer constellation
Cancer, the crab, is the dimmest of the 12 zodiac constellations, yet it contains one of the brightest star clusters, the Beehive Cluster. In Greek mythology, the constellation Cancer represents a giant crab named Carcinos that attacked Hercules during one of his 12 labors. The goddess Hera sent the crab to distract Hercules while he fought the Hydra of Lerna, a water serpent. Cancer was able to grab Hercules’s toes with its claws, but Hercules killed it with a kick before it could cause more damage. Hera felt sorry for the crab and rewarded it for its efforts by placing it among the stars as the constellation Cancer.
In Egyptian mythology, the Cancer constellation was associated with the sacred scarab beetle, an emblem of rebirth and immortality. The connection comes from the scarab’s behavior of rolling dung into a ball, which the ancient Egyptians saw as a symbol of the forces that move the sun across the sky, thus connecting the beetle and the constellation with cycles of renewal and eternal life. In Mesopotamian mythology, the Cancer constellation was often depicted as a turtle or tortoise, associated with the summer solstice and sometimes seen as a gateway to the underworld.
In Celtic mythology, the Cancer constellation is most closely associated with the goddess Cerridwen, who is often depicted as the keeper of a cauldron of knowledge, with the stars within Cancer representing the sparks of wisdom emanating from her magical brew; essentially, the constellation is seen as a symbol of the cauldron itself, signifying the potential for enlightenment and deep understanding.
The Wolf Moon: The First Full Moon of 2026
The January full moon is traditionally honored as the Wolf Moon, a title steeped in the lore of deep winter. This name is rooted in the haunting howls of wolves that were heard more frequently across the snowy, frigid landscapes of midwinter, signaling their presence during the year’s most frozen months. Beyond the literal sound of the predator, the Wolf Moon serves as a profound symbol for the power of the pack and the necessity of community to survive the “long night” of winter. This lunation calls us to tap into our primal instincts to survive and thrive even in the harshest conditions, reminding us that we are strongest when we are grounded in our own territory and surrounded by those we trust. As the first full moon of 2026, it sets a tone of resilience, asking us to listen to our inner wild and protect the flame of our intentions as the new year begins.
As with most pagan names there will be different ones for each culture so below I listed any of the other names for the cold moon I could find across the Earth. The common themes for these moons are, stillness, introspection, community, resilience, wisdom, rest, and the coldness of winter.
Great Spirit Moon or Spirit Moon Ojibwe Native American origins
Mantis Moon (Praying Mantis) South African origins
Ice Moon Catawba Native American origins
cold moon
frost exploding moon
When Snow Blows Like Spirits In The Wind Moon
Stay Home Moon or Quiet Moon Celtic
Bear Hunting Moon (táan kungáay) Haida Alaska Native American origins
Moon After Yule (Anglo-Saxon)
Sun Has Not Strength To Thaw
The Significance of the Last Supermoon
As a Supermoon, this lunation appears larger and more brilliant in the sky because it is near its closest point to Earth in its orbit. This physical proximity creates a powerful energetic “tug” on our internal tides, amplifying the lunar effects to their highest intensity. Because this moon falls in the sign of Cancer, you can expect your emotions to run exceptionally deep; the tides of your heart may pull more strongly than usual, demanding that you sit with your feelings rather than sweeping them aside. This Supermoon also blends the fierce “Wolf” energy of winter with the protective nature of the Cancerian Crab, creating a primal urge to defend what is sacred—your peace, your home, and your inner circle. As the final Supermoon in this series, it acts as a cosmic spotlight, shining directly into your private life to reveal whether your emotional foundations are built on shifting sands or solid rock. This proximity amplifies the lunar effects:
Heightened Emotion: In the sign of Cancer, expect feelings to run deep. The tides of your heart may pull more strongly than usual.
Primal Protection: The Wolf energy combined with the Cancerian Crab creates a powerful urge to protect what is sacred to you.
Illuminated Roots: This light shines directly into your private life, revealing whether your foundations are built on sand or solid emotional rock.
Themes of the Wolf Full Moon in Cancer
This lunation brings the essential themes of security, belonging, and intuition to the forefront, urging us to prioritize our emotional well-being as the cornerstone of the new year. A major focus is Emotional Security, which involves identifying what truly makes you feel safe and “at home” within your own skin. It is also a time for honoring Family and Ancestry, acknowledging both the blood relatives and the soul-family that sustain your spirit. To truly harness this energy, we are called to practice Vulnerability by consciously releasing the hard “crab shell” we often wear for protection, allowing for deeper, more authentic connections with others. Finally, this moon heightens our Instinct, encouraging us to trust our “gut” feelings and internal compass just as much as we trust logic or external facts.
Emotional Security: Identifying what truly makes you feel safe and “at home.”
Family & Ancestry: Honoring the blood and soul-family that sustain you.
Vulnerability: Releasing the hard “crab shell” to allow for deeper connection.
Instinct: Trusting your “gut” feelings as much as your logic.
What to Be Cautious Of
While the energy of Cancer is nurturing, when it is unchecked or over-amplified by the Supermoon, it can lead to moodiness, over-sensitivity, or a refusal to let go of the past. You must be wary of falling into a “Crab Mentality,” where you inadvertently pull yourself or those around you down into old emotional rants, grievances, or unnecessary drama. There is also a risk of extreme Defensiveness, where you might use your emotional shell to shut people out completely rather than setting healthy, flexible boundaries that allow for love to enter. Lastly, beware of Nostalgia Overload; getting too lost in the memories of “how things used to be” can create a stagnant energy that prevents you from seeing the beauty and opportunity available in the present moment. Be wary of:
Crab Mentality: Pulling yourself (or others) down into old emotional rants or drama.
Defensiveness: Using your shell to shut people out instead of setting healthy boundaries.
Nostalgia Overload: Getting so lost in “how things used to be” that you miss the beauty of the present.
Correspondences for the Wolf Full Moon
To align your magic with the Wolf Moon, work with tools that resonate with the frequency of Cardinal Water and the Fourth House.
Category
Correspondence
Planet
The Moon ☽
Element
Water
Modality
Cardinal
Symbol
The Crab
Colors
Silver, White, Seafoam Green, Pearl
Motto
“I Feel”
Chakra
Sacral Chakra
Herbs
Jasmine, Lemon Balm, White Rose, Mugwort
Stones
Moonstone, Selenite, Pearl, Emerald
Tarot
The Chariot, The High Priestess
House
Fourth House
How to Connect to the Wolf Full Moon in Cancer
Connecting with this moon requires a blend of internal reflection and external nurturing of your physical space. You might begin with a Sacred Bath Ritual, using sea salt and jasmine oil to cleanse your emotional body while visualizing the water absorbing any lingering grief or fear from the previous year. Following this, perform a Home Blessing by lighting a silver candle and walking through your living space, intentionally setting a vibration of peace and protection in every room. To honor your roots, engage in Ancestral Honor by setting out a bowl of fresh water or a candle for those who came before you, asking for their ancestral strength to guide you through 2026. Finally, lean into the “Wolf” energy through a “Pack” Connection, reaching out to your closest inner circle for a shared meal or deep conversation that strengthens your emotional bonds and sense of belonging.
Redefine a relationship with a relative
Make your home cozy and a safe environment
Do inner child work– You can start by purchasing my eBook in the shop
Womb healing– To learn more about this practice you can watch my class all about here and book me for 1:1 guided sessions here
Protection magic and spells– To learn more about how to do protection magic you can watch part 1 and part 2 of my classes with Divination academy on YouTube
Work with your intuition– sit with your intuition, listen to your intuition, work on developing your psychic clares. To learn more about how to do that you can purchase my eBook here
Hydrate
attend a community support group and/or therapy
Random acts for kindness
Spread compassion by volunteering in your community
add the wolf to your altar
Visit the winter woods where wolves play
snow magic for release work
Create a spell bag or talisman for a peaceful home
watch a feel good movie or read a romantic novel
Connect with and ride the waves of your emotions
Cook a big meal and host some family
Use the last full moon of the lunar year to work with the year of the dragon
Make a spell jar-to connect to the zodiac Cancer. To learn how to make spell jars you can purchase my ebook here
Work with the element water in your magical workings and spells- You can learn more about how to do that here
Connect to the energy of January. You can read my extensive guide here
Journal– focus on your emotions, emotional healing, family life, family dynamics, childhood, ancestors
Shadow Work Questions
Use these prompts in your journal to dive beneath the surface of the Supermoon’s light and uncover your hidden truths.
The Shell: What emotional “shell” am I currently hiding behind, and how is it actually preventing me from growing or receiving the love I desire?
The Sanctuary: Does my current living space truly reflect my inner peace, or is it cluttered with energy that contributes to my internal chaos?
The Inner Parent: How can I learn to better mother or parent myself when I am feeling particularly vulnerable, small, or afraid?
The Ancestry: Which specific ancestral patterns or family “stories” am I finally ready to stop repeating as I move into 2026?
The Definition of Home: What does “home” truly feel like in my body, and what steps can I take to create that feeling within myself regardless of where I am?
What changes or shifts are occurring within you? How can you embrace transformation and growth during this period?
How do you contribute to your “pack” or community, and how do others contribute to yours? What can you learn from the dynamics of a wolf pack?
What wounds or past hurts from our childhood do you need to let go of?
What does your inner child need from you to feel safe? To feel loved? What did they not get when you were young you can give them now?
How can you express your own authentic voice? How can you find your own way to howl?
What helps me feel stable and secure? How can I create more of that in my life?
What emotions are bubbling just beneath the surface that I need to face?
Do I trust my gut instinct? How can I release doubt in my intuition?
What dynamics in my home need to be changed and shifted to bring more peace?
What generational patterns am I willing to release to step into my own destiny?
What in my day to day life feels heavy that I need t be willing to let go?
What emotion keeps coming up for me in a destructive way over and over again do I need to face and then let go this full moon?
How can I mother myself more?
Do I have a mother wound that needs to be healed an addressed?
How do I allow myself to flow freely with my emotions? What happens when I let myself ride the waves of my emotions?
What do I need to release in order to trust in the source?
How have I nurtured myself in the past 6 months? How can I nurture myself in the next 6 months?
Full moon Prayers and affirmations
I release all that does not serve my highest good.
I illuminate the things blocking my path to my desires.
I release all negative energy, feelings and thoughts that are not serving me.
I release the belief that I am not worthy or capable of manifesting anything that I want.
I call in the energy of the full moon to cleanse my field of anything that is not aligned with my higher purpose.
Affirmations specific to the Cancer full moon
I go with the flow of my emotions
I let my emotions guide me
I trust my intuition is a connection to the universe and is always protecting me
I am clear on my needs
I allow myself to feel vulnerable
My sensitivity and empathy are strengths not weaknesses
I trust my instincts, and they guide me wisely.
I am a valued member of my community, and I contribute positively to it
I protect the members of my community who are vulnerable and need it
The past no longer defines me I create my future
I let go of stress and emotional wounds and surrender to the flow of life
I protect my own energy by allowing myself time alone
I nurture myself through ups and downs. Breakdowns lead to break throughs
I let go of toxic dynamics to create a safe, nurturing, and peaceful home
Howl your emotions out ritual with the wolf moon
This first full moon of the year is the wolf moon remember? So why not connect to the spirt and energy of the wild and wise wolf under the full moon rays of light by communicating like them tonight. One of the simplest ways to release pent-up emotions and energy is to actually howl at the moon just like wolves like to do. Though we now know that wolves howl for different reasons (including to find pack members or to coordinate a hunt), this full moon we can take a cue from these majestic creatures and do our own howling. The howl is the spirit of the wolf unleashed in its divine expression.
So this full moon Do what the wolf does: howl to the Moon. With all the stress and unwanted emotion in life let it go, howl what is in your heart. Let loose what is in the depths of your soul. The Moon is listening. Sitting with the Full Wolf Moon especially in cancer you will know that you are not alone.
How to do this:
When the moon is high out in the sky get some warm clothes on and head outside under the moonlight. Find a place where you can get a clear view of the full moon and be alone. Then stand with your feet apart and put your hands on your hips creating your strongest power pose. Focus on drawing the energy of the moonlight down into you and your pose. Feeling the untamed wild , wisdom, and intuition of the wolf. Allowing the rays of the full moon to hunt down the things that need to be released tonight. Once you feel they have been found. With a deep breath as loud as you can howl as the wolves do and let it all out. Feel the tension, the stress, the past wound, the pain, and the hurt, leave you now with the depth of your howl and be left to the winter wild.
Cancer and duality
Since, I am a grey witch every single energy I work with I look for the duality in that energy and how I can connect to it. First, let’s talk about the sign Cancer. The zodiac sign Cancer is known for its duality, which is represented by the crab’s hard shell and soft underbelly. Cancer energy is said to be tough and protective on the outside, but nurturing and emotional on the inside. Like the crab this energy allows us to retreat into our shell and home we carry on our back and be grounded safely in it. But, when we need to we can stand our ground and defend the home we carry on our backs and protect it until the end. Even though we will feel protective, this energy also allows us to feel, be sensitive, and to nurture not only others but, ourselves. We may feel resilient and hard on the outside right now, but on the inside the waves of emotions are crashing all around us and we internally don’t feel strong and protected.
Second, the full moon itself is all about duality as it is another time of transformation, transition, and rebirth. During this time we are pushed into a liminal space that forces us to look at the things, people, and places that have been obstacles or holding us back. This can be a thing of beauty and hope as well as a thing of pain and darkness which forces us into duality.
Final Thoughts
As the Wolf Full Moon in Cancer on January 3rd glows against the winter snow, let it be a luminous reminder that vulnerability is not a weakness, but a profound strength. This potent lunar cycle invites you to descend into your private depths to nurture your roots, honor the loyalty of your pack, and lean into the primal instincts that guide you safely through the dark. It is a time to retreat from the demands of the external world so that you may feed your soul, protect your precious energy, and move into the heart of winter with a spirit that is both intentionally shielded and beautifully soft.
Under the amplified gaze of this final Supermoon, the veil between your external life and your internal sanctuary is thinned. Allow the brilliant light to illuminate the path back to your truest self, showing you exactly what you need to feel secure, loved, and grounded as the new year unfolds. How will you use this Supermoon’s clarity to find your way home to your own heart?
Step into the primal power of the first full moon of the year!
Join me and the DiviNation Academy for a profound spiritual experience: “Wolf Full Moon Ritual – Howl with the Ancestors.” On Saturday, January 3rd, 2026, at 8:30 PM CST, we will gather Live on Facebook to honor the “children of the long night” and the fierce medicine of the Wolf. Led by myself, this ritual is a call to all who seek to awaken their ancestral memory and reclaim their untamed voice. Together, we will honor the Wolf Mother and winter spirits, release old burdens through a sacred burning-bowl rite, and anchor unbreakable protection for the year ahead. Prepare to journey in meditation as we run with the pack under the brilliant light of the Supermoon—don’t miss this chance to align with your pack-strength and howl your truth into 2026!
I am Kayreign, the Divine Oracle of the Gods and Keeper of Mysteries, a solitary grey magic practitioner with over 15 years of experience walking the sacred paths of the unseen. As a mystic and relentless seeker of all knowledge, I weave together the threads of every magical tradition—light and dark, ancient and modern—to uncover the universal truths that bind us to the cosmos. My mission is to restore and re-enchant magic in this realm, igniting its spark in every soul I encounter, and guiding you to embrace the full spectrum of your being.
My work is rooted in the power of duality, honoring the dance between shadow and light as equal partners in your spiritual journey. I hold space for you to explore all magic paths and practices, drawing from the vast tapestry of mystical wisdom to help you uncover your unique magic and sacred contracts. As the Divine Oracle of the Gods, I channel divine insights to illuminate your path; as the Keeper of Mysteries, I guide you into the depths of the unknown, where true transformation awaits.
When you work with me, you’ll learn to live in energetic balance, embracing your darkness as a source of power, not just a stepping stone to the light. I’ll hold up a mirror to reflect your authentic self—unmasked, raw, and whole—inviting you to face your past wounds, traumas, and hurts with courage. Together, we’ll alchemize every chapter of your story, dark and light, into a blazing internal flame that lights your way on even the coldest nights. Through this process, you’ll find alignment with your purpose, release what holds you back, and step fully into your power.
Come join me for community, knowledge, and to restore the enchantment of magic in yourself and life today!
The new moon in Scorpio on November 20, 2025, plunges us into the deep, mysterious waters of the soul, inviting a profound reset of our inner landscape. Arriving just after the veil has thinned (around Samhain/Halloween), this lunation marks a powerful, intense threshold, blending the lunar reset with Scorpio’s call to purge, investigate, and truly transform.
As a time to set intentions and plant seeds for the future, this Scorpio new moon offers a sacred opportunity to confront the shadows, embrace vulnerability, and alchemize emotional wounds into authentic power. For me, this moon always resonates with a deep pull to introspection, mirroring the cycles of death and rebirth that are essential to all spiritual growth.
Scorpio is the sign of the mystic, the investigator, and the passionate transformer, ruled by Pluto, the planet of death and regeneration, and traditionally by Mars, the planet of action and desire. This new moon encourages us to turn inward with fearless honesty, refine our emotional intelligence, and embrace the raw, often uncomfortable, beauty of profound change. Let this New Moon in Scorpio guide you to shed your skin, nurture your emotional depths, and emerge stronger, aligning with the powerful, cyclical journey of the soul.
New Moon: What It Is and Why We Honor It
Every month, the new moon ushers in a fresh cycle, a moment to pause, reflect, and plant intentions for the weeks ahead. This lunar phase, shrouded in darkness, is a sacred time to cleanse your energy, set goals, and align your actions with your soul’s purpose. The new moon isn’t just a celestial event—it’s a call to pair intention with effort, weaving emotional depth and practical action into a tapestry of manifestation. Historically, our ancestors revered this phase as a time of renewal, using the quiet night to plan and restore, much like the seasonal shifts that guide our lives.
This Scorpio new moon carries a unique magic, blending lunar renewal with the sign’s powerful, fixed water influence. It’s a time to dive into the subconscious and prepare for the quietest parts of the year, a process I feel deeply as I meditate on personal transformation.
Scorpio: The Sign of Alchemy and Depth
Each new moon is shaped by its zodiac sign, and this Scorpio new moon brings the intense, fixed, watery energy of the Scorpion. Who is Scorpio?
Scorpio, the eighth sign of the zodiac, spans October 23 to November 21. It’s dually ruled: by Pluto, the modern ruler of transformation and the underworld, and Mars, the traditional ruler of desire and war. Symbolized by the Scorpion, this sign embodies passion, investigation, and a quest for emotional truth. As a fixed water sign, Scorpio adapts but holds deep, immovable emotional power, offering psychic intuition and a healing touch through catharsis. This sign governs the Eighth House of sex, death, regeneration, shared resources, and psychological transformation, urging us to align our lives with the ultimate truths.
Scorpio Energy in Myth and History
In mythology, Scorpio is powerfully linked to the underworld and deep cycles. The most famous myth ties it to the scorpion sent to strike Orion—a tale of cosmic revenge that placed both creatures opposite each other in the sky. It is linked to deities of the underworld and transformation, such as the Greek Hades/Pluto. This history resonates with Scorpio’s role as the psychopomp, guiding us through the “death” of an old self to the “rebirth” of a new one.
Why I Love the Moon in Scorpio
I adore when the moon graces Scorpio because of its unflinching honesty. This energy demands that we look at what’s hidden, what we fear, and what we secretly desire, offering a path to profound power that no other sign can. Scorpio cuts through the superficial and gets to the heart of the matter—a tool I find invaluable in my own shadow work and spellcraft. This new moon feels like an alchemical container, a moment to honor the emotional depths and commit to true, lasting transformation. This alignment enhances intuition and allows us to tap into the wellspring of raw, passionate energy that fuels deep change.
Defending Scorpio’s Misunderstood Energy
Scorpio often gets a bad rap, labeled as manipulative, dark, or overly intense. People fear the depth and intensity of Scorpio, missing its true heart: an unparalleled capacity for loyalty, intimacy, and healing through truth. The Scorpionic need for control is often a shield for deep vulnerability. Yet, this criticism overlooks how much we need Scorpio—its relentless pursuit of authenticity, its courage to sit with pain, and its devotion to transformation.
In a world that often prizes superficiality, Scorpio’s depth is a necessity. They are the ones who can hold space for the most difficult truths and emerge stronger. This new moon invites us to honor Scorpio’s gifts, to see the passion in its intensity, and to celebrate the internal warriors who sustain us all.
Themes of the Scorpio New Moon
This Scorpio new moon brings themes of transformation, intimacy, and investigation, urging us to align our intentions with emotional truth and profound change. We’ll feel a pull to explore our subconscious, deepen our bonds, and release what has run its course. This moon is a time to harvest emotional clarity, embrace our power, and step into our roles as self-healers.
Transformation/Rebirth: Initiate the death of an old pattern to begin anew.
Depth & Investigation: Dive into your subconscious, seeking hidden truths.
Intimacy & Trust: Focus on vulnerability and emotional bonding in relationships.
Power & Alchemy: Reclaim your personal power and turn pain into strength.
Sexuality: Explore and honor your deepest sexual desires and creative energy.
Release: Purge old hurts, resentments, and emotional baggage.
What to Be Cautious Of With the Scorpio New Moon
Scorpio’s intensity, while powerful, can tip into obsessiveness, suspicion, or emotional drama. This new moon might amplify a tendency to cling to old hurts or engage in power struggles. Be wary of isolating yourself in your quest for control—balance your investigative nature with compassion for yourself and others. Use this energy to fuel your desires, not to burn relationships.
Scorpio and Duality
As a practitioner who cherishes the duality in every energy, Scorpio is a master class. On one side, Scorpio is loyal, passionate, and deeply intuitive, offering a foundation for profound growth and an unmatched capacity for intimacy. This energy heals through catharsis and honesty. On the other, Scorpio can be manipulative, secretive, and ruthlessly controlling, sometimes leading to emotional isolation or self-sabotage.
The new moon embodies this liminal space, a blend of ending and beginning, shadow and light. This moon invites us to harmonize Scorpio’s incredible depth with a willingness to surrender, refining our path with fierce grace.
Correspondences for the Scorpio New Moon
Correspondences are symbols that connect us to a specific energy. Trust your intuition when selecting items.
Category
Correspondence
Planets
Pluto (Modern), Mars (Traditional)
Element
Water 💧
Modality
Fixed
Symbol
The Scorpion 🦂
Colors
Black, Deep Red, Maroon, Gray
Motto
“I Desire”
Chakra
Sacral Chakra
Herbs
Basil, Ginger, Myrrh, Rosemary, Hibiscus
Stones/Crystals
Black Obsidian, Garnet, Bloodstone, Smoky Quartz, Malachite
Tarot
The Death Card, The Temperance Card
House
Eighth House
How to Connect to the Scorpio New Moon
This Scorpio new moon calls for deep, transformative practices. Start with lunar basics—charge crystals, make moon water, reset your altar. Focus on honesty, release, and profound rebirth.
Shadow Work: Dive deep into emotional triggers and hidden fears (See prompts below).
Transformation Spells: Rituals for letting go of old patterns or relationships.
Water Magic: Ritual bath with sea salt and black obsidian for cleansing.
Intimacy Rituals: Set intentions for deeper emotional and sexual connection.
Scrying/Divination: Use a bowl of water or scrying mirror to seek intuitive messages.
Ancestral Magic: Connect with ancestors for wisdom on transformation and resilience.
Sex Magic: Use heightened sexual energy to charge intentions for healing and power.
Journaling: Write a “Burn List” of things you’re ready to release, and safely destroy it.
Sacral Chakra Work: Meditate on orange light to balance sexual and creative energy.
Mirror Work: Speak your truth and your deepest desires to your reflection.
Shadow Work Questions for the Scorpio New Moon
Scorpio’s investigative nature makes this new moon ideal for shadow work, a time to refine your inner truth. Use these prompts to journal, reflect, and set intentions aligned with Scorpio’s transformative power.
What emotions am I actively avoiding or keeping hidden in the “deep”?
What past hurt or relationship am I ready to purge and release for good?
Where have I given my power away, and how can I reclaim it now?
What are my true, unleashed sexual desires, and how can I honor them safely?
What major change (death/rebirth) am I resisting that will ultimately set me free?
How can I cultivate more vulnerability and intimacy in my close relationships?
What is the fear that blocks me from expressing my deepest needs?
How can I transform my emotional wounds into sources of personal power?
What secrets do I keep from myself that need to be brought into the light?
Final Thoughts for the Scorpio New Moon
As the Scorpio New Moon on November 20, 2025, beckons us into the depths, let it be a guide to profound self-discovery. This lunar cycle invites you to shed the skin that no longer fits, to plant seeds of fearless honesty, and to embrace the quiet strength found in emotional surrender. This is a time to become your own alchemist, trusting that the destruction of the old is necessary for the powerful birth of the new.
Take this time to tend your soul’s greatest desires and to trust in the regenerative power within you—how will you align with Scorpio’s sacred call?
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Beloved seekers, as I sit in the stillness of my sacred space on this mystical Sunday, the air feels thick with anticipation. The year of the snake weaves its sinuous path through the cosmos, its scales shimmering with ancient wisdom, and on September 7th, I will cross the threshold into my 33rd year. This isn’t just a birthday—it’s a sacred initiation I’ve come to call the Serpent’s Ascent, a name that resonates deep within my soul. I can feel it now, a vibrant energy coiling at the base of my spine, winding tighter with each breath, a serpent of light poised to surge through all 33 of my vertebrae the moment I awaken as a 33-year-old. This milestone vibrates through me, a hum of transformation and divine connection that I’ve craved since I first stepped onto the witch’s path. As I reflect on this journey, I invite you to join me, to explore the rich tapestry of beliefs that elevate 33 to a master number, and to prepare for your own serpentine awakening.
A Personal Prelude to Transformation
Transformation is the heartbeat of my existence. I’ve danced with it through every shadowed valley and sunlit peak, thriving in the liminal space where the old self dies and the new is born. Each shedding of skin—whether through the loss of a loved one, the unraveling of an identity I’d outgrown, or the healing of wounds carved by trauma—has been a crucible of fire and rebirth. The pain has been sharp, the anguish a wail in the night, but the gifts—resilience, intuition, a love that burns brighter than ever—have been worth every tear. I crave this process, this alchemy of soul, for it’s where I find my truest self. Yet, as September 7th draws near, this transformation feels different, a crescendo I’ve never known.
The energy of 33 is already stirring within me. My body hums with it, a serpent’s coil at my root chakra, waiting to rise. I can feel it in the quiet moments—when I tend my garden under the moon’s gaze, when I cast spells with trembling hands, when I sit with my deities and let their wisdom flow. This anticipation is a new melody, a song of power and possibility that leaves me breathless. I sense it’s not just my own ascent but a call to guide others, to share the light I’ve forged in my darkness. This year, I want to stand as a sovereign being, unmasked and unapologetic, beside the dark goddesses who’ve walked with me—Hecate with her torch, Lilith with her wild freedom, Sekhmet with her fierce healing. Their strength has shaped me, and now, at 33, I feel ready to embody it fully.
The Spiritual Weight of 33
In the glow of my altar, surrounded by the scent of sage, the flicker of black candles, and the cool touch of moonstone, I’ve meditated on the significance of 33. This number isn’t just a marker of time; it’s a cosmic key, unlocking doors to awakening, enlightenment, and divine connection across cultures and traditions. Let’s journey into its depths, exploring the beliefs that have shaped its mystique and how they mirror my own path.
The most resonant thread for many is the Christian association with Jesus Christ. Tradition holds that he was 33 when he faced crucifixion, a moment not merely of physical sacrifice but of spiritual ascension. Historians debate the exact timeline—some point to the Gospels’ vague chronology, others to early church writings like those of Eusebius—but the symbolic weight endures. This age marks the completion of his earthly mission, a transition from human struggle to divine reign. For me, reaching 33 feels like a mirror to that journey, a call to evaluate my purpose, to let my light shine as a testament to growth. It’s a year to stand tall, to weave my own victory over limitation, much as I’ve done through every shadowed trial.
In numerology, 33 is a master number, standing alongside 11 and 22 as a pinnacle of spiritual potential. Known as the “Master Teacher,” it amplifies the qualities of 3—creativity, communication, and spiritual growth—doubling its energy into a force for enlightenment and selfless service. Pythagoras, the ancient Greek philosopher, saw 3 as a perfect number, a symbol of harmony between body, mind, and spirit. The repetition in 33 elevates this into a teacher’s role, a guide for others. I feel this pull in my bones, a desire to inspire, to heal, to hold space for the collective. It’s a vibration I’ve been stepping into with each spell cast, each soul I’ve touched, and now, at 33, it feels like a mantle I’m ready to wear.
Beyond these, 33 weaves its magic through other traditions. In Freemasonry, the 33rd degree of the Scottish Rite, established in the 18th century from medieval stonemason guilds, marks the highest rank, a culmination of esoteric wisdom. The rituals, steeped in symbols like the double-headed eagle, speak of enlightenment—a knowledge I feel echoing in my own path. In Kundalini Yoga, the 33 vertebrae of the spine are a sacred map, each a step for the serpent energy to climb toward the crown chakra. This practice, traced to ancient India and texts like the Hatha Yoga Pradipika, aligns with my sense of a rising force, a personal awakening tied to my spine’s structure. In Buddhism, the Devata-samyutta of the Pali Canon mentions 33 devas, celestial beings under Indra’s rule, adding a layer of divine multiplicity. These threads—Christian, numerological, Masonic, yogic, and Buddhist—interweave to create a tapestry of 33 as a year of ascent, a time to rise into our divine potential.
The “Christ Year” and Alternative Visions
The “Christ year” at 33 is more than a Christian ideal; it’s a universal invitation to face significant life events that test our beliefs and propel us toward deeper understanding. For me, this year feels like a window to embrace my spiritual journey fully, to step into the role of a “master teacher” or “healer” as numerology suggests. But as a free witch, I see beyond a single label, exploring alternative terms that resonate with my pagan and mystical path. These names paint a richer picture of what 33 might hold for me and for you:
The Apotheosis Year
The term “Apotheosis,” derived from the Greek apotheoun meaning “to deify,” speaks to the highest point of spiritual development, a culmination where one ascends to divine status. As I stand at 32, on the cusp of my 33rd year on September 7th, 2025, this resonates deep within me, a peak I’ve been climbing through the shadows of my life. The Greek roots trace to Hellenistic traditions, where mortals like Hercules were elevated to gods after trials, a mirror to my own journey through divorce at 10, the fires at 15 and 16, and the abuse from 13 to 17. Each pain was a crucible, forging me into something divine, and now, I feel Lilith’s wild rise within me, a goddess born from the ashes of sexual assault and betrayal.
This year feels like the culmination of my shadow work, those nights at 15 when I scribbled spells in my journal to survive, the moments at 30 when I faced my husband’s affair with Lilith’s fierce love guiding me. The energy coils at my spine, a serpent of light ready to crown me with sovereignty. I see it in my shamanic journeys—standing under a full moon, my scars glowing like stars, a divine self emerging. This apotheosis isn’t just personal; it’s a call to empower others, to lead workshops where we reclaim our light from darkness. At 33, I’ll anoint myself with honey and rosewater, invoking Lilith to seal this elevation, a ritual to step into my godhood, forged in the fires of my past.
The Veiling/Unveiling Year
The “Veiling/Unveiling Year” speaks to a profound shift in perception, a lifting of the veil between worlds that reveals hidden truths. This concept aligns with my work with Hecate, the goddess of crossroads, who has guided me since I was 10, staring at the stars after my father’s death. The term evokes the mystical insight of ancient priestesses, who peered beyond the mundane, a practice I’ve honed through my trials—abuse from 13 to 17, the sexual assaults at 15, the near-homeless nights. At 33, I feel this veil thinning, a moment to see the truths my pain has obscured.
I remember the nights at 16, after the second fire, when I scried with a cracked mirror, Hecate’s whisper showing me my mother’s betrayal before the truth emerged. Now, as I approach 33, I see the abuse not just as suffering but as a teacher, revealing my resilience. My visions grow clearer—dreams of a serpent uncoiling, showing me the strength in my bisexuality, the healing in my mental health struggles. On September 7th, I’ll light a black candle, call Hecate to lift the veil, and journal the truths that surface—my worth, my power. This unveiling is a gift, a light to share with those who’ve walked my path, a beacon from the shadows I’ve mastered.
The Soul’s Culmination/Initiation
The “Soul’s Culmination/Initiation” marks a milestone where past lessons converge, initiating me into a new level of magical power. This feels like a rite of passage, a leveling up of my soul’s journey, guided by Sekhmet, whose roar has pulled me through since the fires at 15 and 16. The concept echoes ancient mystery schools, where initiates faced trials to ascend, mirroring my life’s crucibles—caring for my siblings at 17, nursing my stepdad at 22, surviving near-death at 28. At 33, these lessons culminate, a sacred initiation into my destiny.
I feel it in my bones, the weight of each scar—divorce at 10, abuse, the affair at 30—shaping me into a vessel of power. Sekhmet’s strength surged when I fought to live for my son, her fire a shield against despair. This initiation is a ritual of rebirth, where I’ll craft a talisman from ash and amber, chanting her name to seal my ascent. The energy at my spine hums, a serpent rising, promising a power to guide others—circles where we heal, spells to break chains. On September 7th, I’ll stand under the stars, offering my past to the earth, initiating myself into this new chapter, a light born from every tear.
The Weaver’s Turning
The “Weaver’s Turning” draws on pagan themes of fate, where the Fates—Clotho, Lachesis, Atropos—weave life’s threads, and at 33, I take the spindle to shape my destiny. This resonates with my journey, stitching together the fabric of divorce at 10, the fires, the caregiving at 22, into a tapestry of purpose. Ancient lore, like the Norse Norns, speaks of this turning point, a moment to consciously weave, a practice I’ve lived by braiding spells from twigs at 16.
I see my past as threads—black for the abuse, gold for resilience, red for love—each a lesson to knot into my future. At 30, the affair’s pain taught me to weave independence, a thread I now strengthen. On September 7th, I’ll gather these colors, braiding a talisman over three nights, chanting to the Fates to guide my hands. This turning is my power, a light to share in workshops, teaching others to weave their destinies. The serpent’s energy coils, ready to thread my legacy—books, circles, a grey witch’s art—into the cosmos.
The Oracle’s Opening
The “Oracle’s Opening” signifies a deepening of my channel to divine guidance, a time when my intuition and connection to spirit guides peak. As an Oracle of the Gods, this resonates, my life’s trials—mental health battles, bisexuality struggles—honing my receptivity. Ancient oracles, like Delphi’s priestesses, channeled wisdom, a path I’ve walked since scrying at 16, guided by Hecate, Lilith, and Sekhmet.
I feel it now, the veil thinning as I approach 33, dreams of serpents whispering truths—my worth after abuse, my strength post-betrayal. I’ll light a white candle on September 7th, scrying with a moonstone, asking my guides for visions. The energy at my spine surges, a light to share, guiding others through divination circles. This opening is my gift, a beacon from my scars.
The Great Work’s Culmination
The “Great Work’s Culmination” draws from alchemical traditions, where lead transforms to gold, a process I’ve lived through my trials. Texts like The Kybalion by the Three Initiates speak of this, mirroring my journey from abuse to sovereignty. At 33, I anoint my third eye with honey and myrrh, affirming my enlightenment.
The pain—fires, near-death—has been my crucible, the gold my resilience. On September 7th, I’ll meditate, feeling the serpent rise, a light to heal others. This culmination is my art, a legacy of transformation.
The Serpent’s Ascent
The “Serpent’s Ascent” is my Kundalini awakening, the 33 vertebrae a ladder for spiritual energy. From Yoga Sutras, this rise mirrors my life’s climb, abuse to power. I meditate daily, feeling the coil at 32, ready to crown at 33. On September 7th, I’ll chant, letting the serpent light my path.
The Sacred Reckoning
The “Sacred Reckoning” is my self-evaluation, aligning with truth after trials. I’ll journal my past, vowing sovereignty on September 7th, a light to guide others.
For me, The Serpent’s Ascent is the truest name. That energy at my spine, winding and waiting, mirrors the Kundalini rise, a serpent of light ready to ascend. This year, I see it as a sacred reckoning, an unveiling of my authentic self, and a culmination of the Great Work I’ve been weaving through every transformation. It’s a personal alchemy, turning the pain of my past—losing my dad and stepdad, facing betrayal, healing from abuse—into the gold of my sovereignty. I’m trembling with the anticipation of it, a dance with the divine that I’ve prepared for my whole life.
A Tapestry of Personal Transformation
Let me take you back, dear ones, to the moments that have forged me into the soul I am today.
The Fracture at 10
At 10, my world shattered when my parents’ divorce tore our family apart. I remember the late-night arguments echoing through our small house, the slammed doors that jolted me awake, and the heavy silence that followed like a specter. My father’s death in a car accident soon after was a blow that stole my breath. I sat by the window, staring at the stars , their light dimmed by his absence. Grief wrapped around me like a shroud, but in that darkness, a whisper stirred—a connection to the unseen. One night, under a waxing moon, I lit a candle I’d stolen from the kitchen, not knowing it was my first spell. The flame danced, and I felt a presence, perhaps Hecate, brushing against my soul, gifting me resilience. That pain was a seed, planted in ash, the first bloom of my free witch spirit, a light I’d nurture through the years.
The Storm from 13-17
From 13 to 17, my home became a battlefield under my mother and stepdad’s reign. Their hands left bruises on my skin, their words carved deeper wounds, and their emotional abandonment hollowed me out. I’d retreat to my room, a sanctuary of chipped paint and a worn journal, scribbling spells I didn’t yet understand—words to shield, to heal, to survive. The abuse was a shadow I couldn’t escape, a weight that pressed me into silence, but it forged a quiet strength I didn’t know I had. At 15, the violation of sexual assault struck more than once, a trauma that bled into my dreams, leaving me trembling under the covers. I’d stare at the moon through my cracked window, begging for release, and felt a flicker of Lilith’s wild energy, urging me to reclaim my power from the ashes of violation. That darkness was my first teacher, a crucible that seeded a gift of intuition, a light I’d later wield as an Oracle.
The Fire at 15
At 15, fire consumed our house, a blaze that devoured my childhood in hours. I stood outside in the ashes, clutching a photo of my father as flames licked the sky. Everything—clothes, books, my first makeshift altar—was gone, reduced to smoldering ruins. The loss was a physical ache, a void where safety once lived, but it stripped away illusions, forcing me to face my resilience. I slept on a hotel bed that night, whispering prayers to the night sky, and felt Sekhmet’s roar in my chest, a call to rise from the ashes. That pain planted a seed of survival, a gift that bloomed into a determination to rebuild, a light I carry into every ritual I craft.
The Second Fire at 16
A year later, at 16, fire struck again, this time with the sting of betrayal—my mother’s arson landed her in prison. The house crumbled, and with it, my last tether to stability. I stood amid the ashes, the acrid smell filling my lungs, caring for my siblings, their small hands trembling in mine, as I took on a mother’s role I never chose. The pain was a crucible, a weight that threatened to break me, but it gifted me a strength I didn’t know I possessed. Under a crescent moon, I gathered twigs from the wreckage, weaving a protection spell with tears and intent, and Hecate’s presence steadied me, teaching me to guard what’s mine. That seed bloomed into a light of responsibility, a beacon I now share.
Caring at 17
At 17, with my mother behind bars, I became the guardian of my siblings alongside my stepdad. Mornings were a whirlwind of making breakfast, soothing their tears, while nights were spent studying by candlelight, the flicker my only companion. The burden was heavy, a mantle of duty that aged me beyond my years, but it wove a thread of love through my soul. I’d sit on the porch, gazing at the stars, the cool night air a balm, and feel Lilith’s wildness, urging me to find joy amid the chaos. That pain seeded a gift of nurturing, a light I now pour into my circles, a testament to the strength I found in those quiet moments.
Loss at 18
At 18, my stepbrother’s death hit like a thunderclap, his laughter fading into a silence that haunted me. I lit a black candle, mourning under the new moon, the wax dripping like tears, and felt Sekhmet’s strength pour into me, teaching me to honor loss with action. The pain was a seed, blooming into a compassion for others’ grief, a light I carry into every healing spell I cast.
Caregiving at 22
At 22, I cared for my stepdad through cancer, his frail body a mirror to my own endurance. I held his hand as he weakened, and wept when he passed, the room heavy with loss. The exhaustion was a shadow that clung to me, but it gifted me patience, a light I now weave into my work. Hecate’s whisper guided me through those nights, showing me death’s sacred cycle, a lesson that deepened my connection to the unseen.
Near-Death at 28
At 28, my son’s pregnancy nearly claimed me, complications threatening my life while carrying him and during delivery. The hospital room blurred with pain, machines beeping a frantic rhythm, and I fought to see his face, his tiny cry my anchor. Each near-death moment was a descent into shadow, a battle I waged with every breath, but Sekhmet’s roar pulled me through, gifting me a fierce love for my child. That pain seeded a gift of survival, a light I now share with others facing their own trials, a testament to the strength I found in that sterile room.
Betrayal at 30
At 30, my husband’s affair shattered my trust. I found the messages, felt the sting of betrayal pierce my heart, and retreated to my altar where I fell to my knees, the air thick with incense. Lilith’s wild energy surged, teaching me self-love through the wreckage. The pain was a seed, blooming into a gift of independence, a light I’m still weaving into my sovereign path, a flame that burns brighter with each step I take alone.
Struggle and Identity
Throughout these years, homelessness loomed like a specter, my bisexuality and mental health a quiet battle waged in the shadows. I’d sleep in my car or on the floor, the cold seeping through, journaling in powerless house, the ink a lifeline. Facing my truth—loving beyond boundaries, wrestling with anxiety—was a crucible, but Hecate’s guidance steadied me, gifting me authenticity. Those struggles seeded a light of courage, a beacon that now rises at 32, ready to illuminate my ascent.
This ascent isn’t just mine; it’s a collective call. Through the shadows, I’ve learned to guide others—offering shadow work, weaving spells, holding sacred circles— and now, I feel a pull to amplify that light. The energy coiling at my spine isn’t solely for my healing; it’s a beacon for those ready to rise from their own ashes. I dream of workshops where we reclaim our power, of books that honor the duality I’ve lived, of a legacy that shines as the Oracle and Keeper I was destined to be. This year, at 33, I yearn to stand unmasked, to let my free witch soul radiate, embracing the sovereignty forged in every trial I’ve faced.
The History and Systems Behind 33
To understand this energy, let’s delve deeper into its roots.
Christian Perspective
The Christian association with the number 33 begins with the life and death of Jesus Christ, a cornerstone of faith that has shaped its spiritual significance across centuries. Scholars like John P. Meier, in his exhaustive work A Marginal Jew, suggest that Jesus’ crucifixion likely occurred between 30 and 33 AD, based on Gospel timelines and Roman historical records, such as those of Josephus. The Synoptic Gospels—Matthew, Mark, and Luke—imply a ministry of about three years, placing his death at approximately 33, while John’s Gospel offers a slightly different chronology, sparking debates among theologians. Early church fathers, notably Augustine of Hippo in his City of God (written in the early 5th century), elevated 33 as a perfect number, reflecting the Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—culminating in Jesus’ ascension. Augustine argued that this age marked the completion of Christ’s earthly mission, a transition from human suffering to divine reign, a theme that resonates with my own journey.
For me, this historical debate mirrors the crucibles I’ve faced. At 10, the divorce and my father’s death in a car accident felt like a personal crucifixion, a stripping away that forced me to seek divine guidance under the stars, where Hecate first whispered to me. The abuse from 13 to 17, the sexual assaults at 15, and the fires at 15 and 16 were my Gethsemane, moments of despair where I lit candles and prayed for deliverance, feeling a presence lift me. Augustine’s theology, which sees 33 as a number of perfection through sacrifice, aligns with my path—each scar from caregiving at 17 and 22, near-death at 28, and betrayal at 30 has been a step toward my own ascension. The early church’s emphasis on resurrection after suffering speaks to my resilience, a light I’ve carried through homelessness and mental health struggles.
Historical debates further enrich this perspective. Some scholars, like E.P. Sanders, argue the 33-year mark may be symbolic, drawn from Old Testament numerology where 3 signifies divine completeness, doubled for emphasis. Others, like Geza Vermes, suggest it reflects a midlife crisis in Jewish tradition, a time of reckoning—mirroring my own sacred reckoning at 33. The Council of Nicaea in 325 AD solidified Christ’s divinity, reinforcing 33’s spiritual weight, a legacy I feel as I prepare for my Serpent’s Ascent. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll honor this with a ritual—lighting a white candle, anointing myself with myrrh, and chanting a prayer to align with this divine completion, a light to guide others through their own trials.
Numerological Perspective
The numerological significance of 33 traces its roots to ancient Greece, where Pythagoras, the 6th-century BCE philosopher, laid the foundation for number mysticism. Pythagoras viewed 3 as the perfect number, representing the harmony of beginning, middle, and end—the birth, life, and death cycle mirrored in the Trinity of many traditions. He believed numbers held cosmic power, a concept I’ve felt since I was 10, staring at the stars after my father’s death, sensing a pattern in their light. The doubling of 3 into 33, explored later by Renaissance mystics like Heinrich Cornelius Agrippa in his Three Books of Occult Philosophy (1533), amplifies this into a master number, dubbed the “Master Teacher,” symbolizing creativity, communication, and spiritual growth elevated to enlightenment and selfless service.
My life’s trials resonate with this numerology. The abuse from 13 to 17, the fires at 15 and 16, and the caregiving at 17 and 22 were my lessons in resilience, each a step toward the creative power of 3. Agrippa’s work, blending Pythagorean ideals with Kabbalistic influences, suggests 33 doubles this energy, a force I feel in my guidance work—teaching shadow work, casting spells, holding circles. At 28, near-death during my son’s delivery, I tapped into this communication, whispering prayers that saved me, a light I now share. The number’s vibration dances in my rituals, a hum I’ve chased since lighting that first candle, a teacher’s path I’m ready to embrace at 33.
Historical influences deepen this. Pythagorean communities, like those in Croton, used number grids to divine fate, a practice echoed in my journaling under streetlights during homeless nights, seeking patterns in my bisexuality and mental health struggles. Later, the Neoplatonists, like Plotinus, expanded this, seeing 3 as a divine triad, doubled in 33 for cosmic alignment—a mirror to my ascent from betrayal at 30 to sovereignty. Medieval alchemists, influenced by Agrippa, linked 33 to the philosopher’s stone, a transformation I’ve lived through pain to gold. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll meditate on this, tracing 33 on my altar with salt, invoking the Master Teacher’s light to guide my legacy.
Masonic Perspective
The Masonic significance of 33 emerges from the 18th-century evolution of the Scottish Rite, a branch of Freemasonry formalized in 1801 by the Supreme Council in Charleston, South Carolina. Rooted in medieval stonemason guilds, this speculative tradition transformed into a mystical order, with the 33rd degree marking the highest rank, a symbol of enlightenment. The rituals, like the “Rose Croix” degree, feature the double-headed eagle and a narrative of death and resurrection, reflecting a journey from darkness to light—a path I’ve walked since the fires at 15 and 16 consumed my stability. The Rite’s history, documented by Albert Pike in Morals and Dogma (1871), ties 33 to esoteric wisdom, a legacy I feel in my own studies under moonlit skies.
My life mirrors this evolution. The abuse from 13 to 17 was my rough ashlar, unrefined by trial, while caregiving at 17 and 22 polished me into a perfect ashlar, ready for enlightenment. The near-homeless nights and mental health battles were my initiatory darkness, where I scried with a cracked mirror, uncovering secrets of resilience. The 33rd degree’s rituals, with their emphasis on sacrifice and rebirth, echo my near-death at 28 and betrayal at 30, each a step toward light. Historical lodges, like those in 18th-century France, blended Rosicrucian and Kabbalistic influences, a synthesis I see in my free witch path, balancing light and shadow.
The Rite’s development involved figures like Étienne Morin, who spread it to the Americas, and debates over its authenticity—some see it as a 19th-century invention, others as an ancient lineage. For me, this mirrors my journey’s duality, a path forged in pain yet crowned with power. The eagle symbolizes my ascent, its dual heads reflecting my bisexuality’s harmony. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll craft a ritual with eagle feathers and a black candle, invoking Masonic wisdom to seal my 33rd-year enlightenment, a light to share in my circles.
Kundalini Perspective
The Kundalini perspective on 33 centers on the 33 vertebrae of the human spine, a sacred ladder for the serpent energy’s rise, a concept traced to ancient Indian texts like the Hatha Yoga Pradipika (15th century) and the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali (circa 400 CE). This life force, coiled at the root chakra, ascends through each segment—cervical, thoracic, lumbar, sacral, coccygeal—awakening consciousness at the crown, a process I’ve felt since the pain of abuse at 13 to 17 stirred my spirit. The tradition, enriched by modern teachers like Swami Sivananda, aligns with my nightly meditations, where I breathe into the scars of my past—fires, near-death, betrayal—letting the serpent rise.
My journey mirrors this ascent. The divorce at 10 and father’s death were my root awakening, a coil forming as I lit that first candle. The abuse and assaults at 15 were my sacral fire, igniting survival, while the fires at 15 and 16 were my solar plexus trials, forging strength. Caregiving at 17 and 22 opened my heart chakra, and near-death at 28 lit my throat, my voice emerging. Betrayal at 30 and identity struggles refined my third eye, and now, at 32, I feel the crown nearing. The Yoga Sutras’ samyama (concentration, meditation, absorption) guides my practice, each pose—cat-cow, cobra—tracing my 33 vertebrae, a light I’ll share at 33.
Historical texts, like the Shiva Samhita, describe Kundalini as a goddess, her rise a divine union, a mirror to my deities—Hecate, Lilith, Sekhmet. Modern adaptations, like Yogi Bhajan’s Kundalini Yoga, emphasize breath, a practice I’ve used to survive mental health nights. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll chant “Sat Nam,” holding a cobra pose, letting the serpent crown me, a ritual to awaken others.
Buddhist Perspective
The Buddhist significance of 33 lies in the Devata-samyutta of the Pali Canon, part of the Sutta Pitaka (circa 1st century BCE), which mentions 33 devas, celestial beings under Indra’s rule in the Trayastrimsa heaven. These scriptures, translated by figures like Rhys Davids, describe a council of divine support, a multiplicity that enriches 33’s spiritual weight. This tradition, rooted in the Buddha’s teachings, sees enlightenment through suffering, a path I’ve walked since the divorce at 10 and abuse at 13 to 17, finding light in the fires at 15 and 16.
My life reflects this council. The devas’ support mirrors Hecate’s guidance after my father’s death, Lilith’s strength through assaults, and Sekhmet’s roar in near-death. The Devata-samyutta’s chants, like those to Indra, parallel my prayers under streetlights during homeless nights, seeking wisdom in my bisexuality and mental health. The Buddha’s Four Noble Truths—suffering, its cause, its end, the path—mirror my journey from pain to resilience, a light I share in circles. Historical debates, like those on the Canon’s oral transmission, enrich this, suggesting 33 as a symbolic council, a support I feel at 32.
The Trayastrimsa heaven, a realm of 33 gods, aligns with my ascent, each deva a guide through my trials. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll chant their names, offering rice to my altar, invoking their light to crown my 33rd year, a beacon for others.
Preparing for the Serpent’s Ascent
As I stand on the cusp of this transformative year, I’m called to prepare—not just for myself, but to share this path with you. The Serpent’s Ascent isn’t mine alone; it’s an invitation for each of us to awaken our inner power. Here are ways to begin working with your own ascent, tailored to the energies I’m sensing and the wisdom I’ve gathered:
Meditate on the Spine
Meditation on the spine is the cornerstone of my preparation for the Serpent’s Ascent, a sacred practice to awaken the 33 vertebrae where my Kundalini energy coils. Each day, I set aside 20 minutes outside or near my altar, the air thick with the scent of sandalwood incense, a black candle flickering beside a moonstone. I sit cross-legged, back straight, closing my eyes to focus on the base of my spine, where the serpent sleeps. I visualize it—a golden thread, shimmering with the light of my trials—beginning its rise. With each slow breath, I move my awareness up, vertebra by vertebra, from the coccyx to the cervical curve, chanting softly, “I rise in light and power,” a mantra that echoes the resilience I forged through the divorce at 10 and the abuse from 13 to 17.
This practice is personal, a mirror to my life’s ascent. The pain of the fires at 15 and 16, the sexual assaults, and the near-death at 28 linger in my spine’s memory, but as I meditate, I feel Hecate’s torch illuminate each segment, releasing the shadows. I journal my sensations afterward—tingling at the sacral chakra, warmth at the heart—tracking the serpent’s progress. Variations include morning sun salutations to align with Sekhmet’s fire or moonlit sessions with Lilith’s wild energy, each deepening the rise. As 33 approaches, I’ll add a cobra pose, holding for five breaths, feeling the energy surge, a light to share with those I guide through their own awakenings on September 7th, 2025.
These practices are my own roadmap, but adapt them to your path. The key is to listen to the serpent within, to feel its rhythm and let it guide you toward your awakening.
Create a Kundalini Altar
Creating a Kundalini altar is a sacred act, a physical manifestation of the serpent’s rise within me, a space to honor the energy building toward my 33rd year. I’ve chosen a corner of my room, draping it with a crimson cloth to reflect the root chakra’s fire, layering amber and citrine stones to amplify intuition—gifts from my survival through homelessness and mental health struggles. A black candle stands for the shadows of abuse from 13 to 17, while a gold one ignites the light of resilience from caregiving at 17 and 22. I place a small serpent statue, its coils a mirror to my spine, and offer sandalwood incense weekly, its smoke a bridge to the divine feminine and masculine energies that have guided me—Hecate, Lilith, Sekhmet.
This altar evolves with my journey. After the fires at 15 and 16, I added ash from the ruins, a reminder of rebirth. Post-betrayal at 30, I included a rose quartz for self-love, its pink hue a balm to my wounded heart. I meditate here weekly, for 30 minutes, visualizing the serpent rising, its energy threading through my 33 vertebrae. Variations include moonlit offerings of honey to honor abundance or chants to the chakras, each aligning with my past—divorce at 10, near-death at 28. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll anoint the altar with myrrh, invoking the serpent’s ascent, a sacred space to guide others in their rituals.
Journal Your Reckoning
Journaling my reckoning is a soul-deep practice, a way to evaluate my past and align with my truth as I approach 33. Over the next month, I’ll dedicate an hour each evening, sitting with a leather-bound journal under the soft glow of a white candle, its flame a witness to my scars. I’ll write a 1,000-word letter to my 33-year-old self, beginning with the divorce at 10 and my father’s death, tracing the abuse from 13 to 17, the fires at 15 and 16, and the caregiving at 17 and 22. Each entry will reckon with the pain—sexual assaults, near-death at 28, betrayal at 30—asking what gifts they’ve seeded: resilience, intuition, love.
This practice is a mirror to my life’s duality. The mental health struggles and bisexuality battles find voice here, each page a release, guided by Hecate’s wisdom. I’ll use prompts like “What strength did the fires teach?” or “How has betrayal shaped my power?” to uncover truths. At the next new moon, I’ll burn the letter in a fire-safe bowl, scattering the ashes outside with an affirmation, “I release and renew,” feeling Sekhmet’s strength rise. Variations include sketching my serpent’s ascent or adding poetry, each deepening my reckoning. On September 7th, 2025, this ritual will crown my alignment, a light to share with those reckoning their own paths.
Weave a Destiny Thread
Weaving a destiny thread is a pagan ritual, drawing on the Fates’ lore, where I shape my future from my past’s threads. Over weeks, I’ll gather materials—black thread for the abuse from 13 to 17, gold for resilience from the fires at 15 and 16, red for the love born in caregiving at 17 and 22. I’ll braid them into a talisman, sitting by my altar, the air thick with myrrh, chanting to Clotho to spin, Lachesis to measure, Atropos to cut my new path. This act mirrors my journey, stitching together divorce at 10, near-death at 28, and betrayal at 30 into a tapestry of purpose.
The process is personal, a dance with my deities. After the affair at 30, I added a white thread for healing, its weave a balm to my heart. I’ll recharge the talisman monthly under the full moon, holding it while invoking Lilith’s wild energy, feeling the serpent’s rise. Variations include adding feathers from my homeless nights or beads from my son’s birth at 28, each a story woven in. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll wear it during a ritual, chanting, “I weave my destiny,” a light to teach others to craft their own threads.
Invoke the Oracle
Invoking the Oracle deepens my channel to divine guidance, a practice I’ve honed since scrying at 16. Each week, I’ll light a white candle, placing a moonstone on my altar, its glow a mirror to my intuition. For 15 minutes, I’ll scry, asking Hecate, Lilith, and Sekhmet for visions—truths about my abuse, strength from the fires, wisdom from betrayal. The energy at 32 feels potent, the veil thinning as I approach 33.
This mirrors my life’s trials. After the sexual assaults at 15, I first saw shadows in my mirror, guided by Hecate. Now, I record visions—serpents rising, stars aligning—choosing one action weekly, like a spell for healing. Variations include pendulum work or dream journals, each deepening my oracle’s voice. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll hold a grand invocation, sharing this light with my circles.
Alchemical Ritual
The alchemical ritual transforms my lead to gold, a practice rooted in my pain. Over three days, I’ll blend honey, rosewater, and a drop of myrrh in a bowl, stirring with intent under a waning moon. I’ll anoint my third eye, meditating for 30 minutes, affirming, “I am the alchemist of my soul,” feeling the serpent rise through my 33 vertebrae.
This reflects my journey—abuse, fires, near-death—each a crucible. Lilith guides this transformation, her wildness turning scars to power. Variations include adding herbs like lavender, each aligning with my past. On September 7th, 2025, I’ll complete this, a light to heal others.
Community Connection
Hosting a monthly circle connects me to others’ ascents, weaving collective energy. I’ll gather trusted souls, sharing intentions, chanting, “We rise as one,” under the new moon. This mirrors my caregiving at 17, a light to guide through workshops on September 7th, 2025.
Resources for Further Reading
To deepen your exploration, I recommend these treasures:
The Power of Numerology by Ruth Drayer—unlocks the secrets of master numbers like 33.
Kundalini Yoga by Swami Sivananda—guides the rise of serpent energy through the spine.
The Kybalion by Three Initiates—explores alchemical principles for the Great Work.
Freemasonry and Its Ancient Mystic Rites by C.W. Leadbeater—delves into the 33rd degree’s wisdom.
The Tibetan Book of the Dead (translated by W.Y. Evans-Wentz)—offers Buddhist insights on spiritual ascent.
A Final Whisper of Anticipation
As I stand at 32, on the cusp of 33, the serpent stirs within me, its energy a hum I can’t ignore. This anticipation is a new song, a melody of power and possibility that fills me with awe and a trembling reverence. I feel it in the base of my spine, a coil of light winding tighter with each passing day, waiting to surge through all 33 of my vertebrae on September 7th, 2025, under the year of the snake’s watchful gaze. It’s a vibration that courses through my body, a sacred fire that dances in my dreams, and I await its rise with open arms and a heart laid bare.
This feeling began subtly, a whisper in my meditations under the last new moon, where I saw a serpent of gold slithering up my spine, its eyes glowing with promise. Each night since, I’ve lit a black candle, tracing the scars of my past—divorce, abuse, fire, loss—with my fingers, feeling the energy build. It’s as if the traumas I’ve endured, the near-homeless nights in my car, the battles with my bisexuality and mental health, are alchemizing into something divine. I sense Hecate’s torch lighting my path, Lilith’s wildness urging me to claim my power, and Sekhmet’s roar preparing me to stand unmasked. This isn’t just a personal ascent; it’s a collective call, a beacon for those who’ve walked through shadow to rise with me.
I dream of what 33 will bring—a sovereignty forged in fire, a voice to guide others through their own crucibles. The anticipation is a physical thing, a tingling in my hands as I cast spells, a warmth in my chest as I tend my son, a pull in my soul as I journal under the stars. I see visions of workshops where we reclaim our light, of books that weave my story into a tapestry of hope, of a legacy that honors the duality I’ve mastered. The energy at my spine isn’t just for me; it’s a gift to share, a light to amplify in my circles. I feel it in the wind that rustles my altar cloths, in the dreams where serpents whisper my name, in the quiet moments when I know I’m not alone.
This anticipation is a dance with the divine, a preparation for the Serpent’s Ascent that feels both terrifying and exhilarating. I’ve craved transformation my whole life, thriving in the liminal space where pain births gifts, and now, at 32, I stand on the edge, ready to step into 33 with all its promise. The energy builds with each breath, a sacred hum that promises awakening, enlightenment, and a connection to the unseen I’ve chased since I was 10, staring at those stars after my father’s death. I await it with a heart full of hope, a soul alight with possibility, and a spirit eager to rise.
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We all need some inspiration, insight, or someone’s else’s perspective to help us navigate and understand the universe and life from time to time. One of my favorite ways to do this is to go to books or the internet and read others words. When I do this it opens up a portal to try and understand their experience that is called life and how they have come to understand the universe we live in. That understanding of someone else’s experience creates a bridge to allow me to shift perspective and learn some new things about myself and the universe along the way as well. This post is a collection of some of my favorite quotations of my own and of others from the past year that really helped me on my path of major transition, growth, and learning this past year. I hope they can help you as much as they helped me!
So be a person they can’t beat. Keep getting back up. Keep fighting. As long as you keep fighting they can never actually win. The fight is coming and as long as we keep getting back up they can never really win.
You create true magic when you learn to let go of control. Let go of controlling the journey and how you will reach your destination. True magic happens when you keep going when that obstacle seems so big in your path there is no way around it. True magic happens in the moments you want to give up and quit. In those moments when you are exhausted and feel like you have tried every which way to keep going to reach your goal. In those moments when you feel stuck and like there is nothing left to do but, turn around and give up. True magic happens when we remember like water we have the ability to be fluid, bend, and be adaptable if we truly let go of controlling the way we must go and just flow.
Never ever quiet that song in your soul. You know the one I am talking about The one that plays in your head when you are alone. The song that no one else but you knows. The one you that makes your whole being vibrate in recognition when it hears it. The one you can’t help but belt out loud. Always let it play out loud for all to see in how you live your life authentically.
I say let it shine and let them cover their eyes. Maybe one day they will be ready to shine just as bright. Until then never let those who are unhealed dull your light.
Stop doing things that make you unhappy. Stop being around people who don’t match your energy. Stop putting yourself in situations that leave you feeling drained. Stop allowing others wants and needs to destroy your peace. You get to choose who you are around, what you around, and the situations you put yourself in. So stop making choices that cost you your peace no matter how it makes others around you feel. Start setting boundaries and watch the peace enter your life.
Be a voice not an echo-Albert Einstein
Now, this year with the energy going on in the collective, the snake slithering its way into our year soon, and the messy rebirth that is happening, it is the time to really grab onto this quotation and take it to live by. To be a voice and not an echo means to embrace your different-ness, to be daring, to take a chance and to take the road less travelled. When you are a voice , it’s when you realize that you are different and thinking differently is the right thing to do. It’s how we evolve and change and keep moving forward in life. Being a voice and not an echo means that you are choosing to use your own voice, your own authentic expression, and your own words when formulating your view of the world around you. Instead of simply being an echo of your environment and what you have been taught. When you are simply an echo of someone else’s voice, you don’t have personal ownership in what you say, and those beliefs you think are yours? Well they aren’t. They simply are an echo of someone’s else heart.
Being a voice and not just an echo is daring to be brave and question the things around you. It’s being willing to be wholly and authentically you no matter who is around and how hard the world makes it for you. When you choose to embrace that you are your own unique voice and not simply an echo of the generations who have raised you. It gives you the freedom, and the permission to speak up and share what you have to offer the world in your own unique way. Embracing being a voice instead of an echo may be a rougher path to travel but, I promise you when you choose to become the authentic voice that is you and let the world hear it, the liberation felt when those chains fall is like nothing else. I want you to choose now and here, to be willing to question everything you think and then decide….. Have you been your own voice or an echo this whole time?
This voice in my souls whispered this to me , Reminding me of the power that I wield. Reminding me of the reality I can shape. Reminding me of the rage and fire that burns deep inside that I can call on to protect myself and those who can’t protect themselves in this life. Reminding me to not forget I am a powerful witch, we do not kneel to anyone or any power. We wield it, we stand with it in our hands, and we fight until we have reshaped our entire life. Taking out corruption along the way. I won’t allow myself to become small and shrink into the shadow to not be heard like this administration would like. I will be loud. I will scream. I will get in their faces. I will stand up and fight. I will not let them take my rights and way of life without putting up one hell of a fucking fight.
Even if you think your thoughts on your life and on the people you know are ‘facts’, they really aren’t. They are a series of beliefs you have chosen to live from – your perspective. Your perspective is the way you see something. It’s the unique way that we interpret and understand our own experiences, thoughts, and emotions, essentially our perspective is acting as a lens through which we view the world around us. Our perspective affects so much of our lives, from our mental health, our interactions with others, our beliefs, and so much more. The way you choose to see things directly affects every choice you make. So your perspective ultimately determines how your life turns out. Your perspective might feel permanent, but it isn’t. Whether you realize it yet or not, your perspective is actually a choice you have made. And like any choice, it can therefore be changed. So, I challenge you to be willing to challenge your perspective today and see how and where it may need to be reshaped. Doing this could make a big difference on not only your day but, maybe even your entire life.
Some paths aren’t meant to be traveled with others by our side. Some paths are meant to be traveled alone. That doesn’t make them sad or lonely, but full of strength, wisdom, and empowerment. It teaches us resilience and shows us all we can truly accomplish. When we really stop and soak up the silence all around us as we travel our path alone beauty will be found all around.
When you make the choice to heal your wounds and confront the traumas that have been written into the pages of your story. What you are really doing is being reintroduced to pieces of yourself you may have kept hidden in the dark and the pieces of you that were there before you locked them away to keep them safe. This is when you get to relearn who you were before those traumas framed how you view yourself, and the world. Along with the skills they taught you to use to protect yourself and how you respond. Then you get to do the harder work and let go of those things you learned to protect you then and let them go. Reminding yourself that you no longer need those skills and responses today for they no longer serve you and the place you are at now.
Choosing to heal, to really truly go into your soul and mend the things that are broken and bring things to the surface that were hidden is not an easy thing to do. It’s one of the most painful things you will ever go through and it becomes amplified by the fact that it is self inflicted on top of that. The pain you experience when going through the healing process is even going to hurt more then when the wound was inflicted on you in the past. But, that’s okay it’s meant to hurt deeply at first for that is how we truly heal how we move through that pain and allow the medicine of healing to burn and chase away the poison that you had circulating in your energetic veins.
I am not here to live my life IN service to others. I am not here to be some cog in a machine that is brainwashed in what I think. I am not here to fall into a line and take orders from anyone. I am here to be me. I am here to stand in my own power. I am here to change how we think and how we do things. I am here to wake others up I am here to tear shit down, burn it to the ground, and eradicate that line. If doing this means I am not in your heaven that is fine. I would much rather reign in hell where true power and independence can be found in the flames raging all around.
Anger like a fire just is. It isn’t good, it isn’t bad. It just is. what matters is what we do with it and how we direct it. We can either let it burn out of control and consume us. Or we can carefully stoke the flames and choose what is burnt away. You can either build with it and light the way or destroy with it. It is your choice. Right now think carefully about your choice. You can let the heat and flames of the anger you feel now consume you and destroy not only you but, the change you could affect. Or, you can take it and carefully stoke it. Allowing it to still burn at just the right height and heat to be the motivation you need to continue to fight.
For true lasting transformation and change to happen we must be willing to do things we have never done. We must be willing to truly look deep into the depths of our soul and be honest and accountable with who we are and what we do to try and make our manifestations come true. We must be willing to step into the unknown without fear and trust that if we listen to the changes we need to make lasting growth will come at last. We must be willing to let go of who we have been in the past. Looking into the future with brand new eyes willing to do the things you thought you never could or would to become all you should. With it being Scorpio season right now is the perfect time to do just that. Grab onto this moment of transformation and step into the unknown with willingness to do things completely new to achieve lasting evolution to a brand new you!
Your soul already knows the answer you just have to be quiet enough to hear it and brave enough to listen to it. The next few days as the veil reaches it’s thinnest point I challenge you to truly sit and listen to not only the whispers of the dead but of your very own soul. Reflect on this past year, the triumphs and the hurts and the lessons your soul has learned. Listen to the answers it’s been dying for you grab onto and use to reshape your reality and awaken. Than be the brave being you were meant to be and step through the veil and into this next year with power, purpose, and alchemizing your fear.
While making wishes and sending them out into the multiverse is a step in your manifestation process and essential. It isn’t the farthest we should go. We can’t simply make a wish with our breath and let them go. We must follow those seeds, see where the land, and cultivate them with our energy, actions, and decisions to make them grow. So today, make the choice to not just simply wish for your dreams to come true but, invest your energy in ways that will make it happen for you soon.
How often do you let your mind and self talk turn into shaming and tearing yourself down? Especially when it comes to your goals, personal development, and growth. How often do you hear yourself try and motivate yourself through comparison to others, belittling yourself or shaming yourself for not doing things you feel you should? I am here to tell you to take a moment and stop, because shaming yourself into change and becoming who you want to be will never get you the long lasting changes you wish to see. Give yourself grace because I know it’s a loop that’s easy to get stuck in and difficult to get off. Then move forward with motivating yourself to true evolution through boosting your self worth, and love.
Some of us did not come to this realm in this lifetime to be supported and carried by others but, we came here to be the support system for the collective. If you’ve had a challenging life, if you are the black sheep and feel like you never had the proper support and love. That is because YOU are the love and the support system for everyone. So, make sure to take the time each and every day to do the inner healing work to help move the collective into a place where they truly feel the love and support you were contracted to bring to the Earth.
When was the last time you validated yourself? I am referring to positively recognizing your thoughts, emotions or actions. When was the last time you took a moment to stop the negative chatter in your mind? Stop waiting to hear the positive words, praise or encouragement you’re craving. Tell it to yourself because you’re the only person you have complete control over.
Self-worth is at the core of our very selves—our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are intimately tied into how we view ourselves as human beings. Which in turn affects our magic, our manifestation, and how we walk around in our communities and go through life. If you don’t feel your self worth is where it should be, take some time today to really sit and reflect on where you have been. Remember every time you fell and got back up again. Remember every scrape, every bruise, every rejection, every broken bone and every hurtful thing someone has ever said. Remember each one those things no matter how hurtful, traumatic or bad they were; you did not stop. You kept going and proved it was all wrong and you wouldn’t let it break you. Each one of those scars, breaks, and every tear wasn’t weakness but, strength and a deposit into your self worth bank. Take a deep breath, focus on that bank of strength you have and remember you are worthy no matter what happens or anyone else says. For every ounce of that strength and self worth in your bank you have earned.
Remember you are growing while also trying to heal. Remember you are grieving while also learning to forgive. Remember you are searching for the future while trying to let go of the past. Remember you are trying to love others while learning to also love yourself. Remember you are accepting yourself for who you are now while also working to become who you were always meant to be. So, give yourself a break and some grace each and every day.
When life, others, or even yourself start to make you feel small, insignificant or like you don’t matter at all. Please stop, take a moment, and be kind to yourself and stand up tall.
Personal growth is central to who I am and how I live my life. I’ve come to learn a lot from the snake when it comes to this process of transformation. They shed their skin every time it no longer fits or serves them. Making the process of transformation very familiar to them. They don’t question it they simply allow it to happen knowing that after that painful process is done, they will be able to slither and breathe like never before. They don’t care what that process looks like to others walking by and they ignore every mumble of disgust and side eye. And if they feel threatened or their boundaries have been crossed they don’t even question to unhinge their jaw and protect themselves while they are healing and raw. Be like the snake as you move through life.
Remember if you are going through shit right now you can use it to allow you to grow and thrive like never before. Nature does it all the time. Just go and ask the mushrooms.
As much as falling apart is difficult, parts of me does truly love it. You get to be so intimate with the raw energy of your soul. It gives you the time to examine each shattered bit of your soul. To filter out the pieces that no longer serve you and lay them to rest with love. To be face to face with the pieces you will carry forward with you in resilience and strength.
Some of the hardest things I have had to heal and work through revolve around the things I didn’t get and receive from others and types of relationships I never got to experience. It’s important that we recognize and work through all of it to be the complete, whole, and balanced creature we were meant to be.
When the fires are all around you and you aren’t sure your skin can take anymore burns; just remember that each step you take and the taller you stand the more power you put into your own hands.
Don’t wait to love yourself until the change is complete, love yourself through the process as well.
Remember,to not care what anyone else thinks of you and their perception of you. You need to do whatever it takes to heal, keep going, and create a healthy and thriving life.
But, remember boundaries aren’t you telling someone else what they can and cannot do. Boundaries are you saying how YOU will respond to the decisions they make and the actions YOU will take. They aren’t rules you enforce on others, they simply are advocating for yourself, your well being, your energy and your time.
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Snakes aka Serpents are beautiful creatures, that face the world in defiance of those who fear them. Slithering their way into our lives with transmutation, magic, and allure. Snakes tap into the deepest parts of us, the things we fear yet cannot look away from. Carl Jung even suggested that snakes are archetypal symbols representing the wild and mysterious parts of your psyche. They can surface in your dreams as messengers from the collective unconscious, linking you to the shared human experience and evoking primordial emotions or instincts. But, don’t forget when it comes to snake symbolism, there are various different interpretations. In some cultures, snakes or serpents are seen as helpful creatures that can guide us on our journey through life. In others, they’re considered to be malevolent, dangerous, and in some cases the source of all evil. The snake’s ability to move between underground and aboveground worlds has led to beliefs that it is a creature that can navigate between the physical and spiritual realms. Come with me on a journey through the realms, history, and time as we slither with the snake in this blogpost to shed our skins together by the end of it.
What are snakes?
Before, we really slither into the depths of what Snakes can symbolize and mean let’s first talk about what they even really are. Snakes are cold-blooded reptiles with elongated bodies, no limbs, and overlapping scales. As reptiles, they’re cold blooded and must regulate their body temperature externally. Snakes are predators and eat a wide variety of animals, including rodents, insects, birds’ eggs and even live young birds. They can be found in many different habitats, including forests, deserts, grasslands, swamps, and oceans. Which means they are found across the world.
Fun facts about snakes
Snakes have no eyelids, so they cannot blink.
Snakes come in many sizes and can range from 10 cm to over 10 meters in length.
A snake has a set of hollow fangs at the front end of its upper jaw for delivering venom into their prey.
The scales covering a snake’s body help them move smoothly over rough surfaces and through water without much resistance or friction
Snakes will shed their skin several times per year throughout their life once they reach adulthood.
Venomous snakes use venom to kill prey or defend themselves against predators, while non-venomous snakes depend only on constriction to catch food or protect themselves.
There are more than 3,400 species of snakes found on every continent except Antarctica.
All snakes are carnivores, eating small animals such as insects, birds, eggs, or other reptiles like lizards and turtles.
The color patterning on a snake’s skin is related to camouflage so that it can blend with its environment
Most snakes lay eggs, while there are some species that give birth to live young, which hatch out of the egg inside the mother’s body.
The Year of the Snake
The 2025 Chinese new year celebrated alongside the lunar new year that falls on January 29th is the reason I am writing this post. The Chinese new year marking the end of winter and the beginning of the spring season, celebrates looking to the future for new beginnings with themes of happiness, health family, and good fortune. This Chinese new year marks the arrival of the Wood Snake, a rare and meaningful combination that appears only once every 60 years. This year of the Snake signifies introspection, subtle power, and transformative growth. It embodies a quiet yet potent and sometimes lethal energy capable of illuminating hidden paths and fostering deep emotional and spiritual understanding. Its strategic, resourceful nature makes it an excellent year for long-term growth. To learn more about the Chinese new year and how to work with the snake during this celebration you can read my guide here.
The power of transformation through shedding skins
The constant shedding and regrowth of the snake’s skin naturally represents transformative states and experience. There’s a sense of profound respect for the snake’s ability to shed its old skin and begin anew, which often translates into new beginnings for you in the waking world. They advocate for the letting go of outdated beliefs to acquire deeper understanding. Just as a snake sheds its skin, you’re encouraged to shed parts of your identity that no longer serve you, making room for an identity shift that aligns with who you’re becoming. This process isn’t merely about changing habits or altering your external situation; it’s a profound transformation that starts from within. It asks you to look deep into your core, question long-held beliefs, and courageously let go of the old to embrace the new. This isn’t easy. Just as a snake exposes itself to vulnerability during its shedding process, you too might feel exposed or uncertain as you navigate your path of renewal. Yet, this is where your greatest growth occurs. Each layer you shed reveals a stronger, more authentic version of yourself.
The venomous strike of protection
Snakes serve as guardians, protecting sacred spaces, yet also represent temptation, challenging your moral compass. They’re not just creatures slithering on the ground with a venomous bite; they’re powerful symbols of safeguarding what’s precious and standing firm against adversity. Some snakes, like cobras and rattlesnakes, will defend their territory when threatened by attacking with a single lethal strike. Reminding us that it’s okay for us to strike back against those who wrong us and protect what is ours when we wait to strike with precision.
The healing medicine of snakes
Throughout history, snakes haven’t only been revered as symbols of transformation but, also as powerful emblems of healing and medicine, offering profound insights into physical and spiritual wellness. Our spinal cord is said to be the physical manifestation of our Kundalini energy even, wrapping around us like a snake. When we awaken this energy, we align and heal ourselves. Not only are they symbols of healing they even physically contribute to our medicine with their venom contributing to both ancient medicinal practices and to many of our modern medicines. Further more we see the snake and its tie to medicine in myth as well. The Rod of Asclepius (aka The Staff of Asclepius) is a snake-entwined rod, said to be wielded by Asclepius, the Greek god associated with healing and medicine.
The snake and the divine feminine
Their phallic shape and dynamic movement have long been associated with sexual energy and potency, which are fundamental aspects of fertility. The smooth, ethereal movements of the snake evoke the image of ancient dance rituals and feminine movement. They remind us that embracing your sexual nature can be a powerful source of creative energy. The snake also represents Kundalini energy, the sexual, powerful, and demonstrative of the sacred feminine consciousness. The snake is one of the most primordial symbols of feminine strength, mirroring the profound essence of life itself.
Snakes in myths and lore
Throughout history, you’ll find that snakes have slithered their way through various religious texts and mythological stories. In many cultures, the snake is seen as a powerful animal that can take on different forms and meanings. The symbolism of the snake is multifaceted. It can personify both masculine (like when they are Satan) and feminine energy, life and death, destruction and resurrection. Snakes represent light and darkness, good and evil, wisdom and blind passion, cure and poison, guardian and destroyer, spiritual and physical rebirth. Let’s talk about some of the myths and lore about snakes and serpents below.
ouroboros
First up, what I would say is the most commonly found symbol of the snake across cultures. The image of a snake eating its tail, called the ouroboros, appears in many different cultures from ancient Greek, ancient Egypt, and even the Norse. Where a mythological creature, named Jörmungandr, symbolizing this symbol plays a crucial role in ragnorak as one of Loki’s children. These different ancient peoples considered the snake a perfect representation of the cycle of birth, death, and rebirth. It symbolizes the intrinsic integration of everything in the universe and the infinite cycles of destruction and recreation. This endless symbol whispers tales of continuous renewal and the infinite nature of the universe’s cycle.
Typhon
Next up, Typhon was a monstrous giant snake-like creature of ancient Greek mythology who fathered many monsters with his mate Echidna. He is often depicted as a massive, serpent-like being with multiple heads. Typhon is described by Hesiod as a fearful beast with strong hands and feet and 100 fiery snakeheads, each bellowing in the language of a different sort of beast. Other descriptions give him snakelike coils instead of feet and some say he was winged. In Greek mythology, Typhon was the offspring of Gaia (the Earth) and Tartarus (the underworld), making him one hell of a formidable opponent. He and his mate Echidna are named the parents of many monsters including Cerberus, Orthrus, the Lernaean Hydra, Chimera, the Caucasian Eagle, Ladon, the Sphinx, the Nemean Lion, the Crommyonian Sow, the Colchian Dragon, Scylla, Gorgon, the Harpies, and various sea serpents. In the most popularly known myth about him. Typhon challenged Zeus’s rule and Zeus defeated him with thunderbolts, burning his many heads and casting him down into Tartarus, scorching and melting huge areas of the Earth in the process. The exact spot this happened is said to have buried him directly beneath Mount Etna, explaining the volcanic activity in the area.
Hydra
Next up is a creature you’ve seen before if you have seen Disney’s Hercules. In Greek mythology, the Hydra is a monstrous, serpent-like creature with multiple heads, most commonly depicted with nine. It was an offspring of Typhon and Echidna bred by Hera to kill Hercules. Hydra lived in the swamps of Lerna, near Argos; its most defining feature is that for every head cut off, two new ones would grow back, making it nearly impossible to kill, and one of its heads was considered immortal; the hero Hercules was tasked with slaying the Hydra as one of his twelve labors, where he managed to defeat it by having his nephew cauterize the wounds as he cut off the heads, allowing him to eventually sever the immortal head and bury it under a rock.
The serpent in the garden of Eden
Of course Christianity has it’s own representation of the snake and serpent as well. In most versions of the Bible, snakes are often associated with evil and temptation. In the book of Genesis, a serpent tempts Eve to eat from the forbidden fruit of knowledge. This fruit was from the one tree in the garden God had forbade her to eat from. The serpent tells her that “when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” She grabs the fruit and eats it, then she knows all that God knows. This entire decision leads to Adam and Eve’s expulsion from the garden of Eden forever. Depending on how you view this story and which version of the bible you read, this is why the snake is seen as evil because, they were the one who caused humans to be expelled from paradise and removed from God. Some even believe the snake was Satan himself. Now, if you look at this story from a gnostic view and from older version of the story, the serpent liberated Eve by giving her freedom to make her own choice. To stay in the garden protected by god but, ignorant of knowledge. Or to take that bite, gain knowledge and leave the only place she had known. Never to see it again. The Snake is also seen again in Jesus’ story of salvation, where it represents Satan tempting Jesus in the wilderness. In Christianity, there is a widespread belief that the snake symbolizes evil, sin, and temptation.
Kundalini
Have you heard of Kundalini energy before? Well that energy is a snake as well. Kundalini in tantric tradition is represented by the serpent. Kundalini energy is even called “serpentine power”, it is a symbol of inner strength, psychic energy, it represents our infinite potential of being. Kundalini is said to be one of the most powerful, primal energy that represents the unmanifested potential within us. Kundalini is the feminine, creative, evolutionary force of infinite wisdom that lives inside every single one of us. In most depictions it is represented as a snake coiled three and a half times around, where in most of us it lies dormant at the base of the spine. I say most of us because that energy remains dormant at the base of the spine, until it is awakened. Kundalini lives in the energetic body, along with the chakras and the nadis. If you want to learn more about your energetic body and how to work with Kundalini energy you can read my guide here. OR head to the shop and book me for a womb healing session.
Lares
The Romans believed in household guardian spirits they called Lares. Lares were often illustrated in snake-form. They not only protected homes, they protected the barriers between the physical and spiritual worlds. They were believed to influence people and events. The Lares may have evolved from the practice of burying family members inside the home even.
Nāgas The Nagas is a race of large serpentine creatures that can often be found in the mythologies of Hinduism and Buddhism. They are described as powerful, splendid, wonderful and proud semi divine creatures. Nagas are potentially dangerous but more often then not are beneficial to humans. Perhaps the most famous naga in the Hindu tradition is Shesha, who is often portrayed along with Vishnu. The Hindhu god Brahma was said to have banished the naga to their underground kingdom when they became too populous on Earth. Their domain is in the enchanted underworld called Naga-loka filled with gems, gold and other treasures.
In Buddhism, nagas were often depicted as protectors of Siddhārtha Gautama, the Buddha, and the dharma (Buddhist teachings). Of the many naga mentioned in the Buddhist scriptures, one particularly famous one was Mucalinda, a naga king who spread his great cobra hood to shelter the Buddha from a storm that arrived while the prophet was deep in meditation.
Other beliefs about snakes
In the Jewish faith, snakes have traditionally been seen as a symbol of evil and destruction. In the Torah, God sends a plague of serpents to punish the Israelites for their disobedience. The meaning of snakes in Judaism has also been associated with healing. According to Jewish tradition, when Moses raised his staff, it became a snake, this represented a miraculous power of transformation, representing God’s gift of healing.
The druids believed serpents were primordial beings with an ancient knowledge and wisdom of the earth. They taught snakes visited the subterranean realms of the deities and ancestral spirits in the Otherworld during their winter hibernation. The return of snakes in the warmth of spring brought a blessed connection between mortals and the chthonic gods and goddesses. Serpents were the sacred creatures of the deities in the mortal realm.
Snakes differ in symbolism depending on the Native American tribe, where each tribe has its own set of beliefs. The Cherokee fear snakes but associate them with power, believing snakes should never be killed while steering clear of them. Similarly, Lakota Sioux and Blackfoot cultures tell of a serpent named Unhcegila, whose slime caused flesh to rot. But in Hopi culture, snakes symbolize the earth, where all living beings are connected to each other, as well as the planet. Snakes are also symbols of fertility and health in Pueblo and Ojibwa cultures, who also view snakes as healers.
Gods and Goddesses associated with snakes
Snakes not only have slithered their way into countless myths as animals and guides with humans. But, they are often found as symbols associated with many gods and goddesses and at times even companions that help aid the deity in many beneficial ways. Not only that some deities even appear as snake themselves. Let’s take a look at some but, certainly not all of the deities that can be associated with snakes or serpents. Don’t forget you can then use the snake as a correspondence d to work with these deities.
Medusa
First up, we have who I would argue is the most famous deity of them all associated with snakes outside of Satan. The legend of Medusa is well-known in Greek mythology. It tells of a beautiful woman transformed into a gorgon: who some would consider to be a hideous monster with venomous serpents for hair. She is feared by many, especially men. This is because, she is incredibly misunderstood. Due to the fact that most of her myth and story isn’t commonly told and her tragic beginning many have tried to have lost in the waters of time. The truth behind the myth of Medusa doesn’t start with Perseus. It doesn’t even start with Medusa being cursed by Athena. It starts long before that, with the god of the sea Poseidon.
Because of her story many pagans and witches, especially women chose to work with her as a goddess. She’s a powerful symbol of transformation. Transformation of anger and pain into passion and drive, accountability for oneself and growing from it. Seeing ourselves for who we truly are at our core, and approaching your obstacles and challenges with ferocity. Her name says it all; “Medusa” means “guardian, or protectress”. As a Gorgon, Medusa also represents a primordial force of chaos and destruction, embodying the untamed and unpredictable aspects of the natural world. Her petrifying gaze can be interpreted as a reminder of the inherent danger and potential for devastation that exists within the natural order. She uses it to protect others, especially women. And to show others their true nature; if they choose to take from another something they have no right to take. Let go of your fear about her and come with me to stare into the slithering snakes upon her head to learn the truth about her myth, how she is much more than a monster but, a goddess who was demonized, and how to work with her in my guide here.
Quetzalcoatl Among the most prominent deities in Mesoamerican cultures, there was Quetzalcoatl, or “Feathered Serpent,” who was a mix of bird and rattlesnake (coatl is the Nahuatl word for serpent). He is seen in both Mayan and Aztec culture as a deity of many things including rain, wind, wild animals, harvests, and creation. Not only that he is said to be the god responsible for bringing the people their knowledge of science, writing, creating books, and the creation of the calendar. Although he is the god of many things, Quetzalcoatl was sometimes portrayed as a trickster god, and while his plans did not always work as intended, they did consistently benefit humanity. Which may be why he was often referred to as the morning star. He represents creation, life, knowledge, and the dualities of existence.
Since, he plays such a crucial role in Mesoamerican history there are more myths about him then I could ever cover. In each one he plays a slightly different role and represent a slightly different aspect depending on the region of Mesoamerica you are in . Below are a few I picked to talk about this vital serpent god of Mesoamerica. First up the creation myth story of this cycle of humanity told by the Aztecs. Together, Quetzalcoatl and Xolotl created the current race of humans by descending into the underworld, Mictlan to gather the bones of the former race of humans, destroyed by disaster, and brought them to Cihuacoatl who ground them into flour. The brothers then moistened the flour with their own blood and fashioned the resulting dough into human shapes, gave them life and taught them how to care for and reproduce themselves. In one version of the creation story, he and another god, Tezcatlipoca, transformed themselves into snakes and ripped a giant sea monster named Cipactli in half; one part of her became the earth, the other the sky.
In another myth he is the reason the Aztec people have access to maize or corn which is why he is considred a god of agriculture. The story goes like this, the Aztec people initially only had access to roots and wild game for food staples. But, they knew of the existence of maize but, at that time, maize was located on the other side of a mountain range that surrounded the Aztec homeland. So, they had gone to the gods for help to bring it to them. Other gods had already attempted to retrieve the maize by moving the mountains in different ways, but their efforts had all been unsuccessful. Leaving the Aztecs still with no access to maize. One day Quetzalcoatl decides to give it try. Where others had approached this problem with their brute strength, Quetzalcoatl decided to take a different approach by relying on his keen mind. So, he decided to instead of go big and strong to go small. He turned himself into a black ant and followed the other ants in their ant trail over the mountains. After a long and difficult journey, Quetzalcoatl reached the maize. He grabs one single kernel and triumphantly brings it back to the Aztec people where it becomes a crucial part of their culture and expansion of their civilization.
Lilith
Next up, I am going to talk about probably one of the most famous goddesses outside of Medusa associated with snakes, Lilith. Her association with snake comes from her connection to Jewish folklore. I honestly could go on and on as to why she is associated to snakes through out many myths and associations with them. But I will limit myself to just a few reasons why. First, it is thought in some Jewish folklore that since she was the consort of Samael (satan) she played a crucial part in his role in the expulsion of Adam and Eve from the garden of Eden. Samael literally translates to venom of god so of course what image do they usually depict Samael as in this story? A serpent. So, because of her connection to him, this story, and having many children with him she is also often depicted with a snake as a symbol. In a guilty by association kind of way. But, she is associated to them for her own reasons as well. Just as a snake sheds its skin to regenerate, Lilith is seen as a figure who rejects societal constraints, particularly those placed on women, making the snake a fitting symbol for her rebellious spirit. Not only that her rebellion does allow her access to so much hidden knowledge she wouldn’t have gained access to if she had stayed in the garden as Adam’s first wife. Which is why she encourages us to always challenge and question authority to find the knowledge they hide.
Okay, so you know why she was associated with snakes but, who is she?
For 4,000 years Lilith has wandered the earth. Lilith is a “Dark” Goddess, she is one of incredible power, charisma, and persuasion. She is a mistress of the divine feminine and a true seductress. She is a Queen of Darkness and understands the powerful energies that sleep in the night and can bend them to her will. She hears the dark whispers of the forgotten night. The sleeping Dark mother who calls to the creatures of the nights and nurtures them in blankets of moonlight. She is Lilith, the Dark Mother and she is incredible to work with! She is a healer and a lover and one who can provide comfort and support to those in need. Her night energies provide rest and comfort and she can inspire those who work with her with dreams. She empowers those she works with. She can awaken our power and help us to claim who we are and our space and become the people we desire to be. She reminds us of our truth and the powerful individuals that we are. Lilith is not bad or evil. Lilith is the voice inside of you telling you to act when you feel you’ve been treated unfairly by the patriarchy. She is the voice that says it’s not only ok but good to enjoy sex and your sensuality. She is the voice calling for the divine feminine in each one of us to stand up and fight for our power.
Lilith invites us to explore the serpent energy and aspects of our being, to confront the fears and shame that may have kept us from fully expressing ourselves, and to integrate these wild, untamed parts into our conscious awareness. By embodying the untamed, Lilith also challenges societal norms and expectations, particularly those that seek to control or limit the expression of feminine power and sexuality. She reminds us that our desires, our sexuality, and our authentic self-expression are sacred and worthy of celebration, rather than something to be ashamed of or suppressed. She reminds us that if the patriarchy steps out of line its okay for us to strike back with our venomous and lethal bite. If you want to learn more about her and really go in depth into her history you can check out my guide here and purchase my eBook to work with her below!
In this ebook you will learn her detailed history, How to work with and honor her, and be provided with journal prompts, spells, prayers, and shadow work prompts to help you liberate all parts of yourself.
Asclepius was known in Greek and Roman mythology as the god of medicine and healing, whose powers extended not just to healing but, he was known to bring back the dead. Aesculapius is the son of the god Apollo and Coronis. In some stories, she’s a nymph but, in other stories they say she’s a mortal princess. Like many humans who tangle with the gods she meets a tragic ending by Apollo killing her in a fit of jealous rage. Then laying her body out on a funeral pyre with the aid of his twin sister Artemis. They cut open her belly and pulled his unborn child Asclepius out. Some myths say Artemis left with him and some say it was Apollo himself but, the newly born Asclepius was given to the wise healer and teacher Chiron to raise. Under Chiron’s care Asclepius learned so much about healing and medicine he absorbed the knowledge so well, he became more skilled than even his teacher. His exceptionally proficient skills in healing and medicine threatened the order of the cosmos, which lead to Zeus killing him with a lightning bolt. While he may have started as a demi god he grow in power and knowledge to claim his own spot among the Olympian pantheon as a god.
Since, Asclepius is THE Greek god of healing and snakes were seen as symbols of healing and medicine in Greece it makes sense that his main symbol would be a snake. You know that famous symbol you see at most hospitals and on ambulances with a rod and a snake twisting around it. That is his most famous symbol and healing staff. There are even a few myths and stories tying him to snakes as well. In one story he comes across a snake that is on the brink of death and he aids him with healing. As a thank you the snake whispers to him all of its secret medicinal knowledge. Especially how to use their venom in healing medicines and practices. Asclepius took that knowledge back to his temples where he used it in countless healing sessions for the people of Greece. It was even said that snakes roamed his temples freely always being welcome there to share their healing and wisdom.
Hygeia
Hygieia was very important in her role to protect the health of ancient Greeks, first in Athens, than the rest of the Greco-Roman world. In Greek mythology, Hygeia was the goddess of health, cleanliness, and sanitation. She was the daughter of Asclepius, the god of medicine (we just talked about above)), and Epione, the goddess of pain relief. While her father was associated with healing, her role was in the prevention of sickness and continuation of good health. Hygeia was originally associated with physical health only , but later became the patroness of mental health as well. She was a guardian of public welfare and encouraged people to maintain a healthy lifestyle in all areas. Since, she is a symbol of medicine and the daughter of the keeper of medicinal knowledge and power, Hygieia’s symbol is a either her simply holding a snake or a chalice with a snake twined around its stem. She is very intimately connected to the image and healing powers of snakes. They even were welcome and lovingly tended to by her inside of her temples just like her father.
The rainbow snake
Next up we have probably the oldest continuous religion with the influence of the snake I can find. Rock art featuring this great Ancestral being dates as far back as 6,000 years! The Rainbow Serpent (Serpant) is a deity in Australian Aboriginal lore that represents one of the great and powerful forces of nature and spirit. Connected to water, the Rainbow Serpent is the great life giver, a symbol of fertility and regeneration, and the protector of water. Which is where the rainbow Serpent lives. While the rainbow serpent is seen the creator god and protector of the people, the Rainbow Serpent can also be a destructive force if it is not properly respected. In times of anger or rage it causes storms and floods to act as punishment against those who disobey the laws. The story I found about this serpent goes like this. The story describes a time long ago when the Earth was flat. The serpent was one of the Dreamtime creatures (or creator gods) who held great powers and gave shape to the Earth. One day the serpent emerged from under the ground to awaken different groups of animals from the dreamtime. The movement of its body formed physical features like hills, gorges, creeks and rivers into the once-featureless terrain. It slithered all over the country, occupying waterholes and providing nourishing water. Once it grew tired with shaping the Earth, it coiled into a waterhole where it lays still to this day except when we see a rainbow. It is thought that a rainbow means the rainbow snake moved from one watering hole to another one to replenish the water as it lays coiled resting at the bottom.
Tiamat
The last deity I am going to bring up related to snakes isn’t really a snake but, a dragon. I am including her for a few reasons. The first being that many different cultures like those in Asia don’t see a difference between dragons and snakes at all. The second reason being, Tiamat is also a dragon who, if you believe the myths we are living inside of right now. How much more of a representation of rebirth, transformation, and fertility could she be? So, who is Tiamat. In Mesopotamian religion, Tiamat is a primordial goddess of the sea, mating with Abzû, the god of the groundwater, to produce younger gods. She is the symbol of the chaos of primordial creation. She is referred to as a woman and described as “the glistening one” As with all myths and especially those involving the divine feminine there are two parts to the Tiamat mythos. In the first half, she is a creator goddess, through a sacred marriage between different waters, peacefully creating the cosmos through their many generations of offspring born out of love. In the second half Tiamat is considered the monstrous embodiment of primordial chaos as a result of her own children’s actions. As with almost every pantheon her children and husband end up at war battling over power and her son wanting to take the throne. This war results in one of her own children killing her husband. In a response full of grief and betrayal at the hands of her children she let’s loss her rage on them by creating a legion of monsters to war against them for quite a long time. Until one day, her own son Marduk finally slays her and rips her body in half to create the realm we live on now. If you want to hear the full telling of her story and meet her check out my class with DiviNation Academy here.
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Snakes are seen as symbols of protection, fertility, luck, resurrection, and eternity in many cultures and religions like we talked about a lot above so far. Their symbolism is often associated with rebirth, transformation, and power. In some cases, snakes can also be seen as symbols of death and destruction. In some cultures, snakes are also associated with mystery, a symbol of healing. In other stories, snakes can be seen as protectors, guardians, and mentors to humans. To others, a snake symbolizes wisdom and the knowledge of secrets. The snake can also represent evil or danger; often associated with deception and temptation, like in one of the most well known stories we talked about above with Adam and eve.
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Duality of snakes
Since I am a grey witch every single energy I work with I look at how it can help me maintain balance and how it can represent the cosmic energy of duality. This energy was a really easy one for me to write about the duality of. This is because, in many cultures, snakes already symbolize duality. Like, wisdom and cunning OR creation and destruction OR healing and death Or chaos and order. I mean as a creature of chaos, the snake itself holds within itself the duality of life and death. They are seen as creatures of duality even for the environments they live in and their abilites to move from underground to above ground with ease and adaptability. Let’s not forget their roles in different stories across cultures putting them in places of duality as well. Like how some place them as protectors to guide the people and even heal like in Greece. Where in Christianity they are the destroyers and the ultimate symbol of evil. Lastly, when we look at the act of shedding their skin that is regeneration at its core. Regeneration is a dualistic act itself. It means something is dying to make room for something new to grow in its place.
Correspondences for Snakes
First, what is a correspondence? A correspondence is an item or symbol that is meant to connect you to a specific energy thru it’s representation. It is seen also as an item to respect, honor, and venerate that energy as well whether it be a deity, an archetype energy, the zodiac energy the moon is currently or a symbol like the snake, I will list below for you to use. Remember this is not an all encompassing list and there may be other correspondences to use. Just follow your intuition and use what calls to you.
Different colors of snakes can mean different things
Sometimes as a way for the universe to send us information and messages it sends them to us in signs and symbols. This could be something from a snake crossing your path while on a walk, entering your home, or even showing up in your dreams. One thing I have come across when working with snakes and understanding their messages is to pay attention to their color and pattern they show up as. Each color is believed to bring its own unique message or meaning. There are some differing beliefs about each color based on the region and culture you look at but, below I have put together the most commonly accepted ones I can find and I use in my life.
Black snakes, typically represent bad luck and death in many cultures.
Green snakes are viewed as messengers of good fortune.
Red snakes are generally associated with fire, passion, and danger. They can also symbolize transformation and rebirth.
White snakes tend to represent purity and spiritual enlightenment. They are often seen as a sign of good luck or fortune in many cultures.
Brown snakes usually symbolize the earth element and are viewed as a symbol of protection and stability.
Yellow snakes are seen as a sign of wisdom and the power of knowledge. They can also represent wealth and prosperity.
In Chinese culture, black and white snakes together symbolize yin and yang—the two opposing forces of the universe —coming together in harmony.
Ways to work with snakes
Each one of us will develop our own relationship with these mysterious, sensual, healing, and wise creatures. It is up to you to sit with the energy of the snake, read the myths about them, and listen to what feels right for you and how they want to work with you. Listen to the wisdom they whisper with each hiss as they slither through the shadows. Remember; it’s important to approach them with respect, reverence, and gratitude to build a relationship with these mystical creatures. Follow your intuition and work with them however you feel pulled to but, here are some ideas to get you started on ways to work with snakes and serpents in your magical practices and life.
Study the Snake
The first thing just like with every single energy I talk about and write about for you to work with magically, is to study it. I know this guide is massive. I know I have a lot of information in here but, there is soo much more to cover when it comes to these multi faceted and mystical creatures. Go and read about more myths of snakes and their different symbolism in cultures I didn’t cover here. Read about deities who call the snake their companion and try and add them to your practice. Learn more about how their venom is used in healing practices. Learn about the different types of snakes in different regions of the world. What they look like, their habits, and how they adapt to their environments. The more you study and learn the better! When working with snakes it is all about building a true relationship with them and you do this first by getting to know who they are.
Meditation
The slow-moving, entrancing motion of snakes is dangerously, but powerfully hypnotic. Use the imagery of the snake in meditation to enhance your trance state. Serpents are an ideal meditation focal image for conquering fear, moving through difficult feelings and regaining your power.
Visit a snake rescue or volunteer at one
What better way to connect to these creatures then to get up and personal with them while doing some kind work to help some who may need a little extra love in life right now. You can do this by finding a snake rescue near you . Most will have some way for you to go and visit the snakes who have been rehomed there. You can usually support them by paying an admission fee. Some will even let you adopt a snake from them or volunteer your time there as well. So, go online and find one near you to visit. I will be taking my son to this one near us soon. https://snakediscovery.com/
Adopt or buy a snake as a companion
If you feel you have the time and resources to care for a snake. If you have done the research and did the proper preparation. If you feel really drawn to work with them in your every day life why not add one to your home. But, again make sure you do this responsibly and only get one if you truly have done the research and feel prepared.
Go on a walk in nature to encounter one
Snakes are very versatile creatures living in many different types of climates in many regions across the world. Which means depending o the season and weather in your current part of the world you are likely to come across one. So, one way you can connect with them is do a little research about areas near you where you can go on a mindful walk in nature and hopefully come across one on your path. Don’t forget to take note of the colors and patterns you see like we talked about above. That way when you come home you can look into deciphering the message they have for you.
Slither in the shadows with them during shadow work
You can work with them as a spirit guide or familiar depending on your belief system when doing shadow work. You follow them as they slither comfortably into the shadows to show you what you hide. When working with them in that way, the snake or serpent can guide you to universal truths, cosmic knowledge, the shedding of skins, and profound healing. If you would like to learn more about shadow work you can purchase my eBook here; you can book me for a 1:1 session as your guide here; and you can watch my free class previously taught on it through Divination here. And don’t forget to register for new 6 month course Embrace your shadow self here!
Other ways to work with the snake
Transformation spells and rituals
Fertility spells and magic- One I like to do is drawing a sigil of a snake on an egg and burying it in my garden and in my plants to promote growth
Use snake skins as an ingredient in you spell workings. For example add it to your a spell jar for protection, transformation, or renewal. You can learn more about spell jars by purchasing my eBook here
call on the snake for protection of yourself or your home. Add their image to use a protection sigils
Work with deities that are known to be associated with them
Connect to and work with awakening you Kundalini energy
Use the snake as a symbol in your sex magic rituals
Connect to the divine feminine through womb healing and allow the snake to meet you and guide you when you are doing this. You can learn about womb healing in my FREE class here. You can book me for a 1:1 womb healing session here.
Let go of a way of life that is no longer serving you and shed your skins by setting new SMART goals and trying new things
Celebrate the Chinese new year with the wood snake
Add the snake as a symbol to your altar. Need to learn how to make an altar check out my FREE class with DiviNation here
Use them with your healing spells
Create a dream journal and take note of when they slither into your dreams
Mimic snake movements in rituals to enhance stealth or invisibility in magical practices
Gather snakeskins and create snake dust. In some forms of Hoodoo and folk magic, snakeskin is dried and then ground into a fine powder, sometimes referred to as “snake dust.” it is believed that rubbing a bit of snake dust on your hands can keep you from dropping things
In ancient Greece it was believed that contact with a snake would provide the gifts of prophecy. So, use the snake symbol to enhance divination skills.
Wear snake jewelry to charge yourself with the energy of the snake
Practice Opiomancy which is divination by the movement of snake(s). It involves watching the snake’s movement, or lack thereof, when asked a question.
*Only if you safely know how. utilize their venom for potent protection magic and in hexes and curse magic
Renewal and Rebirth spells and rituals Collect shed snake skin and use it in spells or rituals focused on personal transformation, letting go of old patterns, and embracing new beginnings.
Plant herbs that attract snakes around your home and property like clover , mint, juniper, lemongrass, etc.
Create healing , rejuvenation, or glamor potions by infusing them with snake shed skin
Utilize a coiled snake symbol in binding or containment spells
Use a snake skin as a scrying surface to access deeper insights
open up you hips and work with the divine feminine by doing some sensual dancing with movements like the snakes
Shed your skin with the snake ritual
This ritual I have created to help you start your work with the snake doesn’t require much just you, the image of the snake in your minds eye, and a bath scrub. This ritual is meant to help you literally shed dead and old skin from your body. To allow your new fresh glowing skin to grow. But, this can be an uncomfortable and painful process. So this ritual also is dripping with self love to help ease the transition.
To prepare for this ritual you will need to decide if you want to take a ritual bath or a ritual shower. I prefer to do ritual showers with this ritual because, it is easier to scrub and remove skin from your body and you are left with more room for movement. If you are going to do a ritual bath then you need to draw it and add any herbs you would like to it that promote self love. Like lavender, rose petals, rosemary, or any others you like to use. Maybe even add some pink salt. If you need ideas I do have a spell for a self love ritual bath on my Pinterest here.
Once you have your bath drawn or your shower going it is time to get into sacred container. Do this while you are holding on to your bath scrub you picked out to infuse it with the energy you are calling into your sacred container of self love, renewal, and letting go. However you do this is up to you but, I want you to focus on an image of a snake in your minds eye. Focus on what it looks like, the color of each scale, how it moves, and the energy it gives to you about renewal. What does it hiss to you that you need to let go? What parts of you need to be shed with your old and dead skin? What parts of you are ready to be removed so you can awaken the next stage of your enlightenment?
When you feel that the snake is there in the bathroom with you. When you feel you have listened to their hisses whispering to you what needs to be shed and let go for your next transformation. It is time to get into either your shower or bath when you step in make sure you do so on an inhale of breath while envisioning the energy of the snake and water entering your energetic system. On your next big exhale you will release any tension, resistance or stress in your body still. As you feel the water start to hit your skin and wash over your body imagine and picture the snake right there with you. Slithering up and down your body showing you the areas of your body that need extra attention. Showing you the places you have energetic wounds sitting waiting for you to scrub clean and allow them to heal. As you watch the snake show you those place on your body take your bath scrub in your hands. While holding on to it focus on adding all your energy of self love and healing into your scrub. Once you feel it has been infused into your scrub. Take it and begin to scrub your body from head to toe. Making sure to pay special attention to the areas the snake showed you. As you are scrubbing make sure to focus on the old energy, the old you, the old skin being removed. Focus on the new skin coming in to transform you into the next highest version of yourself, shedding your skin and old self just as the snake has guided you to do.
This ritual can sometimes leave you feeling pretty raw, vulnerable, and sensitive. So, if there wasn’t enough self love infused in your scrub make sure to do some more self love rituals and self care. Make sure you allow yourself the space to feel what you need to after shedding the old you.
Final thoughts on how to use the energy of the snake this year
Snakes or Serpents are associated with both darkness and illumination across many cultures throughout history and time. Snakes offer a profound lens through which to explore the realms of spirituality, transformation, and protection. Remember, snakes are known for their ability to shed their skin, symbolizing the process of letting go of the old and embracing the new which is going to be the central theme to this entire year. Snakes really are everything you aspire to be: smooth, sneaky, and completely unbothered by the opinions of others. They’re the passive-aggressive MVPs of the animal kingdom. They slither through life with the grace and determination to get to their next goal. Never being afraid to strike out with a venomous bites to protect yourself and your way of life. So, use this guide to help you tap into this energy and become all you truly want to be in life regenerating from the inside out like the snake
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It’s hard to believe another year has gone by! As we welcome in a new calendar year it’s important to choose your word of the year! If you haven’t already chosen a word of the year now is the time to do it! Choosing a word of the year allows you to look back on your hopes and dreams for the year. You have the chance to set the stage for the year to come and focus on what you need most in your life right now. Your word of the year can help you set goals that share a common theme. Ideally, your word of the year should be something that inspires you to reach your goals, chase your dreams, and drives you to live a fuller life. I truly believe that choosing a word of the year can be one of the most powerful things you can do in terms of goal setting , manifestation, and personal growth when the new year comes around each time.
Why choose a word of the year?
In life, you can’t just wish for your dreams to come true. You need to commit to them, create a plan, and implement a system to make your goals a success. There are countless ways to do this. One that I find to be incredibly useful is to include a New Year’s word to constantly remind me of them and keep them at the forefront of my mind. Choosing a Word of the Year is like picking a theme or central idea you want to focus on for the whole year. It’s a simple way to remind yourself of what’s important and what you want to achieve or change in your life—like having a personal motto or slogan.
When you choose a word, it is usually what you need more of, what you want to focus on, or what you need to improve on. A lot of the time, my word has been blaringly obvious. It helps me gain clarity on my goals, my personal development plan, and stay committed to my goals all year long. This method I have been using for years has now become a cornerstone to the foundation of all my goal setting and manifestation work for each year to come. If all that’s not enough reasons to set a word of the year, I don’t know what is!
How do you choose your word of the year?
Choosing a word of the year doesn’t have to be hard. Your word of the year just needs to provide you with inspiration for the direction you desire this next year to go!
First step is to, reflect on the past year and on the next year ahead. Make sure you look at the highs and the lows of from the past year. Look at what worked and what didn’t. Be authentic and honest with yourself about how the past year truly made you feel. Don’t hide from yourself to try and make yourself feel more accomplished then maybe the last year went as well. But, also don’t let yourself get fixated on the things that didn’t come to fruition through manifestation. Instead be willing to see through your eyes with clarity, the lessons they have taught you as this chapter comes to a close. Below are some of the questions I have used from year to year to pick out my word of the year. Use any of them that speak out to your soul or come up with your very own!
What do you want to do or accomplish the most in the next year?
What was the overall feel of last year?
Is there something you want more of or don’t want in teh next year?
How do you want to feel by the end of next year?
Is there something important you want more of from the past year?
Is there something you cherish you want more of from the past year?
What skills did you learn in the past year you want to use in the next one? What new ones would you like to learn?
What was the biggest lesson you learned in 2024?
What is the biggest lesson you wish to learn in 2025?
What core value of yours do yo wish to focus on this next year?
What feeling fits the goals of every area of your life?
What is the biggest blockage you need to remove in 2025 to manifest your dream life?
How do you want to describe your life by the end of 2025?
How would you describe the year 2024 in one word by the end of it?
What was the best things you manifested in 2024?
What is the biggest thing you need in your life to meet all your goals in 2025?
What major life changes happened in 2024? What ones do you wish to happen in 2025?
What was the greatest challenge you had to overcome in 2024?
Once we have taken the time to sit and reflect with our feelings and thoughts for the past year and then how we want to create the year unfolding ahead. It’s time to sit down and start to get a rough picture of how you want your goals to take shape in the year ahead. This step is crucial. If you don’t know what you want to accomplish, it’s going to be extremely difficult to reflect on your accomplishments and assess if you were successful. While you are doing this make sure to take a close look at each of your goals and try to find any connections between them. If you start to see a link now you may start to see your word of the year start to take form and reveal itself to you. Take a look at some of the categories below to help you start to brainstorm your goals. If you need help to learn more about what goals are you can read my guide about them here.
Finance
Parenting
Relationship(s)
Travel
Home Improvement
Self-Care/ self-love
Health
Career
Self-Development
Mental health
Healing journey
business
hobbies
political activism
Spiritual well being
Learning/knowledge/education
family
fun
cleaning/organization
pets
Now that you reflected on your past year, what you want in the next one ahead, and started to shape your goals for the new year. It is time a create a list . Create a list of one words that fit the feeling of the things you have written down. I like to do this brain dump style. How I do this is I read my answers to the question from above. Then without judgement, fear, or trying to control what comes I pick up my pen and just let the words come. I write down every single one that comes. Now, it is time for you to do the same. Don’t judge any of them that come, you never know which one may sneak up and surprise you. Below you will find a list of ALOT but, certainly not all of the words I have had come to me throughout the years. If any of them are glittering to you on this new day as an unknown year unfolds take them and add them to your list as well.
balance
compassion
commitment
acceptance
release
heal
Focus
Clarity
growth
perspective
integrate
magic
learn
dream
cultivate
prosper
shine
conquer
embrace
peace
simplify
create
accept
explore
adventure
expand
evolve
hustle
Cherish
rest
reflect
bloom
confidence
self love
thrive
elevate
inspire
persevere
forgive
encourage
connect
consistency
renew
enough
alignment
boundaries
pause
seek
gratitude
speak
wander
ground
allow
be
believe
authenticity
honesty
success
softness
family
me
build
devoted
Fight
Flexibility
fulfill
fun
habit
health
home
imagine
divinity
illuminate
indulge
lift
no
now
observe
progress
sparkle
trust
surrender
rebuild
teach
together
fight
unfold
wild
accepting
aware
justice
brave
curious
Disciplined
Empowered
Happy
Intuitive
invested
Wealthy
nourishing
motivated
Now that you have this long list of words in front of you it time to narrow down your favorites. However you choose to do this is up to you. Whether you meditate, use a pendulum, simply sit and reflect on them or something else. Narrow it down to a few or handful of your favorites to choose from.
Drum roll…. Now is the time we have been waiting for. It is time to choose the word that you can commit to as the next year unfolds. As you choose your word you need to make sure you have a strong pull to it so, you feel you can truly commit to it. If you can’t commit to focusing on your word, then you won’t live up to your goals for the new year. You won’t make changes or put the effort forward Make sure .that your word just feels like it fits. Some years you’ll need a more active word because you’re in a season of growing. While others will be more quiet and slow as you are in a season of reflection and introspection. So, make sure the one it is you choose sings to your soul and is one you can really commit to in the long year ahead.
My 2025 word of the year
After I sat down and did this for 2025 myself , the word that was singing to my soul for 2025 is Consistency. What is Consistency? It is the quality of always behaving or performing in a similar way, or of always happening in a similar way. Consistency also means that we’re making sure we’re doing the things we tend to avoid. There are many benefits to implementing consistency in our life to help us achieve our biggest dreams and reach our highest goals. I’ll list a few of them below.
Builds trust- Being consistent in your actions and words helps others perceive you as reliable and dependable.
Helps achieve goals- Consistency is a critical driver for success, and it involves dedicating yourself to your goals and staying focused on what you need to do to achieve them.
Makes lasting change- Consistency is key to making lasting change serving as a catalyst. it can also increase your productivity and motivation.
Helps you overcome procrastination- Consistency can help you let go of fear and procrastination, and take action regardless of how you feel. Which in turn helps with emotional regulation.
Helps you build habits- The more consistently you do something, the easier it becomes, and eventually it becomes a habit.
Consistency enables us to develop the necessary skills and knowledge to excel in our chosen field and become a master as well.
Reducing stress-Consistency can provide stability and reduce uncertainty.
Building resilience- Consistent effort can help you persevere, overcome challenges, adapt to change, and stay motivated in the face of adversity.
Why I chose the word Consistency
Now, to be honest, I’m pretty determined and I achieve most of my goals (at least 80%) but when I reflect on those that I don’t achieve, it almost always comes down to consistency. I would probably describe myself as someone who likes to start stuff and likes the sense of achievement of finishing stuff but ,I don’t enjoy the middle. when you can struggle. When you may have days that you don’t hit all of your goals, check off the whole to do list, or be focused on your goals at all. Those days when I don’t do anything to work towards my goals, manifestation, and growth are the ones that can derail my progress and even my entire year. It starts a shame spiral I really struggle to get myself out of off and it holds on very tight. But, as I sit here now and reflect on those moments they also are some throughout the past year that I learned the most about myself.
I n those moments of being inconsistent I have learned so much about myself in the past few years but, especially the past one. From how to love myself more, trust in my gifts and magic, and learn how I can truly help the collective in this life around. My confidence grew and I learned how to use my voice in a more efficient way, and that my number one gift is my authenticity. I learned that my artistic and creative self has been hiding just waiting for the right way to express itself and be let out. 2024 taught me a lot about flexibility and slowing down. Reminding me that amongst a chaotic year and life I can eventually find peace amongst the anxiety of the unknown and be able to cherish the little moments when I go back to my roots , surround myself in silence and be still.
I also learned that I have a lot more healing to go to keep myself in wise mind which allows me to be consistent with the way I want to live my life every single day. I need to be more committed to working through dysfunction, tough times, and hiccups in life (especially with technology) to be more consistent in showing up in my life. I need to be more focused on not being perfect in my progression every single day. But, to instead be willing to just be consistent to see long lasting change. Where my life, my business, my growth, my learning, and my evolution have been blocked and stopped is with me, myself, and I not being consistent with the things I want in life .With not being consistent with the things I know I need to do in life, to reach the highest peaks and bring my dreams into reality. With allowing perfectionism and a need to control block my sight. So, for 2025 I commit to being consistent with myself in an honest and authentic way.
What does being consistent in this year look like to me?
It means showing up for myself and my goals each and every day. Taking action regardless of how I feel on any given day. It means that this year will be the year I build upon the work I have been doing over the last five years to evolve, grow, and alchemize my suffering. I build upon the last year of work I have put in to build my business(this sacred container) and acknowledging the vast amount of progress I have made so far. I will keep doing the things that work and I won’t worry about the rest. I believe that being consistent will help me both personally, spiritually, and NOW professionally. Being consistent will help me let go of the fear of the unknown, of the self-doubt as to whether I can achieve my goal as well as all that procrastination and excuses. Why? because when you choose to be consistent none of that matters, you just keep doing what you’re doing. It makes you accountable to yourself, to your plan. It will also help me be my authentic self, practice what I preach, and let go of the need to be perfect and in control at all times with myself and my world. So, for 2025 I commit to being consistent with myself in an honest and authentic way.
How to use your word of the year?
Now, that you have gone through the steps and reflection to get to your word of the year what do you do? How do you incorporate this word into your life, manifestation and goal setting for the new year waiting to unfold. How do you take this one little word and have it be the corner stone of your dreams coming true, goals being met, and lasting change taking root? That is really truly going to depend on you and what you need. Think about what works best for you. Below are some of the things I have done in the past years you can try. Just listen to that little voice in your head and heart telling you which way to go.
My personal favorite, . If you haven’t learned how to create one to transform you year completely check out my guide here.
A lot of people like to call them vision boards but, I prefer to use goal boards. Using this term creates a much more urgent sense to complete what is on them instead of making them a some day dream. So, make sure when you create yours for this year your new word of the year you just chose inspires everything on it and is in the center of the board.
Are you a bullet journal fanatic like I am? Do you live your life on the pages of that journal? Why not put your world all over it? I do. I add it to the front o f the page and across every single margin so I see it every year.
Don’t use a bullet journal then write it on your planner, your calendar, or put on the notepad on your phone or lock screen as a home screen saver.
Use your word of the year to be the center of your goal setting mind map. This is one I love to do year after year. I take the word I choose then in the center of a page I write how can I…fill in this years word.. this years number. So for this year it said How can I have consistency in 2025? Then around that question I make boxes for each categories of goals and answer the question for each one. This helps me guide with clarity the goals I should focus on in 2025.
Let your word of the year be the guide and center focus of the SMART goals you set for 2025. To learn more about SMART goals and how to set them check out my guide here.
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Another great idea is to create a list of books to read that support your word of the year. If you aren’t a book person then do a list of podcasts, YouTube videos, or documentaries instead.
That bullet journal we talked about earlier why not go and pick out 12 monthly quotes that align with your word of the year. use one each month and write it in your bullet journal , on your bathroom mirror, create a phone lock screen, or write it on your monthly calendar page. You can find daily motivation quotes on my Pinterest page to sift through.
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Write your word on multiple pieces of small paper and seal them in a jar you decorate to pull out on days when you need to remember your focus for the year.
Take your word of the year and write it on sticky notes and place them all over your home to remind you of what is when you need it and you can’t forget it. You could even write it in the inside of your wrist. I have done that from time to time. I suggest don’t use permanent marker or sharpie. I have had it end up on my face by the morning while I sleep through transference. Not fun to try and wash off!
Are you more of a person who lives their life using their phone? Then why not take your word and have it on reminders, alarms, or calendar events to go off and be a consistent reminder for you.
Write your word down over and over and over again somewhere. Putting your goals which this word is tied to, in writing enhances their tangibility and strengthens your commitment to achieving them.
Share your word of the year with friends and loved ones. You can do this in anyway you like. When you Share your goals with trusted friends, family, or a mentor you gain encouragement and accountability. If you need a community to share your word with comment below, comment on facebook, or in my patreon.
Lastly, make sure to spend some time in a quiet, calm, and sacred container so you can meditate and visualize what living your life focused on your word of the year will look like, and feel like in the year to come.
Final thoughts
When it comes to choosing your own word of the year, there is no right or wrong way to do it. It’s about choosing one word (you may or may not want to choose a mantra/affirmation/quote instead or to go alongside) that will encompass your intentions for the year ahead. You want it to be your focus, your reminder to be your best self for the year. Your reminder to walk your own unique destined path to help heal the collective and the souls you find on your travels. Perhaps your word will come to you in a flash of inspiration or maybe you keep seeing it pop up as you go about your day. It might come to you quickly or it might be more slowly – you will know when you know. Just follow that intuition, trust yourself, and choose YOUR word. Then set your goals and reach for the stars! Just remember that 2025 can only be better if you choose to make it better. You have to put in the effort to make this year the most magical, and best one yet! What is your new word of the year? Come join me on Facebook or patreon and let me know or comment below!
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During fall the energy and essence of gratitude is in the air all around us as we watch the fields being harvested with the bounty from the land and making it’s way to our tables for gathered meals as we give thanks with our families in November and December. This time of gratitude has me thinking of the importance and significance of cultivating a mindset of gratitude in my life. Cultivating a mindset of gratitude is a powerful tool to realign our thoughts and energies and allow us to live life from a state of wise mind and duality. When you practice gratitude you are building a deeper connection with yourself. You are committing to self-awareness, self-reflection, and self-compassion and these are essential tools for supporting your personal growth, mental health and overall well-being. As the saying goes, “What consumes your mind, controls your life.” So why not let gratitude consume our minds and dictate the course of our lives? By shifting your focus to positivity, gratitude not only improves your mental health and self-esteem but also enhances relationships and boosts overall well-being. Learn how practicing gratitude can transform your perspective, leading to a happier, more fulfilled life .Discover the life-changing benefits of gratitude with this 7 day gratitude challenge in this blogpost today!
What is gratitude?
Thankfulness, gratitude, and appreciation are all deeply connected, simply they all mean expressing the pleasant feeling of being thankful and appreciative for something one has received. The word gratitude comes from the Latin word gratus, which means “grateful, pleasant”. Not only is it something we feel and experience but, it is a tool we can use to reframe our perspective. Using gratitude as a tool allows you to shift your focus. From what you believe your reality is towards what you want your reality to be. They are both very real, but you choose to prioritize one over the other.
The Science behind gratitude
It turns out, the benefits of gratitude aren’t just motivational fluff you see on social media everywhere. Scientists have actually shown that gratitude can physically change your brain. This research made me realize that the mind’s ability to “rewire” itself—known as neuroplasticity (A term I Learned while in DBT) —plays a big role here. When we practice gratitude regularly, it strengthens certain neural pathways, just like exercising a muscle. In fact, gratitude activates regions in our brain linked to pleasure, reward, and emotional regulation, including the prefrontal cortex and the hypothalamus. Let’s dig into a bit of it now!
Practicing gratitude effects our brains by stimulating the production of dopamine (a chemical messenger (neurostransmitter) that works in the brain. It helps nerve cells send messages to each other. When dopamine is released in the brain, we feel a sense of temporary pleasure) and serotonin (another messenger which creates a long-lasting feeling of happiness or wellbeing), often referred to as the “feel-good neurotransmitters. These chemicals play a vital role in regulating mood and emotions. By regularly expressing gratitude through different ways in our lives, we essentially train our brains to produce more of these beneficial chemicals!
Researchers have discovered that expressing gratitude can also trigger the release of oxytocin, the hormone responsible for strengthening social bonds and creating feelings of trust and connection. So practicing gratitude not only improves our relationship with ourselves, but also enhances our ability to build and maintain meaningful connections with others and ourselves.
Historical Significance of Gratitude
Historically, the concept of gratitude isn’t new. Many ancient cultures emphasized the importance of thankfulness in their traditions and rituals. For example, the ancient Romans celebrated a festival called “Lectisternium” where they expressed gratitude to their gods for their blessings. The festival of Setsubun central in Japan and Shintoism is a time when they give thanks to the kami and the land for the spring and fertility to come. Plus pagans have many, many holidays centered around gratitude and giving thanks like Mabon,Samhain, Beltane, Hekate’s night, and so on! Honestly there are too many holidays centered on giving thanks to name. Similarly, every religion has holidays, and festivals that are centered around the act of giving thanks, We even have holidays centered around cultural and country specific reasons to give thanks like Thanksgiving in the USA, highlighting its timeless significance to our human existence.
Benefits to practicing gratitude
By dedicating just a few minutes each day to this practice, you can begin to experience a shift in your perspective. You’ll start to notice and appreciate the small joys that make life special, from a sunny day to a kind gesture from a stranger. Ultimately, this simple act of focusing on gratitude for a small pocket of time can lead to profound changes in your mindset and overall well-being like some of the benefits we will explore more below.
Gratitude aligns your with the flow of abundance
When we acknowledge and appreciate the blessings, big or small, that surround us, we invite abundance into our lives. Gratitude shifts our focus from what is lacking to what is plentiful, fostering a sense of contentment and fulfillment allowing us to enter into the flow of abundance. Once in the flow, we are able to connect to the generosity of the multiverse and have all of our needs met.
Gratitude creates a life attracting positivity
Practicing gratitude not only has a positive impact on our mental and emotional well-being but also attracts more positivity into our existence. By expressing thanks for the opportunities, relationships, and experiences we have encountered along our journey, we create space for greater joy and success to manifest. Embracing a mindset of gratitude transforms challenges into valuable lessons and setbacks into steppingstones toward growth and achievement.
Focusing on gratitude builds resilience
Gratitude and having a daily practice focused on it, can help individuals build resilience by encouraging them to find silver lining in challenging situations. When you’re able to see the good even in difficult times, you become more emotionally resilient and better equipped to cope with problems or life changing events as they arise. By acknowledging and appreciating the good, you develop a more balanced perspective, making it easier to cope with challenges by allowing you to access wise mind and use the DBT skills that will be the most effective.
Gratitude reframes our perspective
By focusing more on a habit of gratitude, you learn to reframe your thinking and concentrate on the positive aspects of your life. Our brains have a natural tendency to dwell on negativity, a phenomenon known as the negativity bias. It is an evolutionary survival mechanism that once served a purpose but can now hinder our well-being. In our day and age we don’t always have to be on alert for dangers in the wild to be able to survive and provide for our families. Of course we have a new set of issues nowadays, but our bodies do not have to constantly be in fight or flight mode. By consciously redirecting our attention towards gratitude, we counteract this bias and retrain our brains to notice and appreciate the good things around us. This shift in perspective can significantly improve mental well-being.
Gratitude helps us heal from childhood trauma, abuse, and pain
Learning how to practice gratitude after childhood trauma can help in your healing journey immensely by helping you reach radical acceptance. I know how hard it may seem to practice gratitude, especially when you’ve experienced childhood abuse and trauma. It’s hard to be grateful when we’re born into an unloving home with toxic or abusive parents that makes us doubt our self worth. It seems insensitive or perhaps even offensive to suggest. However, the benefits of gratitude, and practicing gratitude can help with healing from trauma. Also, gratitude doesn’t mean ignoring the fact that bad things did and do happen. It’s possible to feel grateful yet still find that life’s hard sometimes. It isn’t easy, but it can make a difference.
Other benefits of practicing gratitude
Feeling grounded, especially during challenging times
Boosting your mental health and well-being
Allowing your mind to focus on the positive things
Making you more optimistic
Developing a new-found appreciation for the simple things
Cultivating a healthy work-life balance
Relieving stress and overwhelm
Decreasing anxiety and depression
Fewer physical symptoms of illness
Forming a deeper connection with yourself, your surroundings and others
Ways to connect to Gratitude
Gratitude has more power to make our lives happier and healthier than we have ever imagined. Spending a little time each day to practice gratitude makes you consciously and intentionally focus on becoming more grateful for everything around you. It is also a great way to practice being more mindful and helping you shape a reality where you thrive. Feeling and expressing gratitude changed my life. I have more confidence in myself and I see people and situations in my life more compassionately. I have more peace of mind than ever before and I’m more certain that I can design the life I want for myself while maintaining wise mind and duality.
Discover some simple and powerful gratitude rituals below to transform your daily routine and boost your mental well-being. These easy gratitude practices help cultivate mindfulness, positivity, and emotional resilience. Whether you’re new to gratitude practices or looking to deepen your daily routine, these rituals are perfect for anyone seeking peace, happiness, and a life where you thrive in wise mind. Start and/or end your day with a grateful heart and watch how your mindset shifts. When you practice gratitude, it becomes part of all areas of your life. Join me on this 7 day gratitude challenge below and watch your reality become what you truly want and your perspective be reframed.
1.Keep a Daily Gratitude journal
Gratitude means, “the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.” So to practice gratitude is to show your own appreciation of things. Either in your head, out loud or on paper. The most popular form of practicing gratitude comes with journaling and keeping a daily gratitude journal. A gratitude journal is more than just a diary; it’s a dedicated space where you regularly record things you’re thankful for. This simple yet profound practice encourages you to focus on the positive aspects of your life, no matter how small or insignificant they may seem. By doing so, you train your mind to see the good in everyday situations, fostering a more optimistic outlook on life.
So, for day 1 of this gratitude challenge we are going to start are very own daily gratitude journal practice. When you do this find a quiet place you can sit down and simply answer the questions below, Writing down the things, people, surroundings, etc, you are grateful for at that exact moment as you reflect on your day. Try to do your best to make this part of your daily routine from here on out. Here is a link to this gratitude journal for you to download and use as many times as you would like too!
2. Create a gratitude list through a brain dump
For day 2 of this challenge to help us reframe our life with gratitude, we will focus on getting a bigger picture of the things in our life we have to be grateful for. Doing this allows us to reframe our perspective even wider looking past just the day we had today to further beyond. Today’s challenge task is an easy one – make a list of everything you’re grateful for. You have wonderful things in your life already. It’s up to you to notice it. Think about everything you currently have going on in your life (or don’t have going on – in a good way). Take a moment to reflect on these blessings. There is nothing too small for you to be grateful for. You can be grateful for that cup of hot tea you get to enjoy every morning, that playtime with your child, your cat purring as they lay sleeping near by… List everything you can think of in a journal for you to see in one place. Allowing it all to sink in. Each and every single thing you have to be grateful for in your life as a whole.
3.Create a gratitude Jar
For day 3 of this challenge to help us reframe our life with gratitude, we will focus on that bigger picture again. While creating a way for us to come back to it in times of doubt or hardship when we need a little reminder of what we have to be grateful for. We will do this by creating a gratitude jar. So, what is a gratitude jar? A gratitude jar is a manifestation exercise where you add notes of gratitude to a container of your choice. Now, there are a few ways to use this tool of gratitude and a few ways to make it, First way you can choose is to take the list you made in day 2 of this challenge and either cut it into smaller pieces. Or write each thing written there onto sticky notes or smaller cut pieces of paper. Then you can take those pieces place them inside a jar, and leave it in your home somewhere you can see it. That way when you have moments of doubts when you are thinking life is too dark and you can’t go on because you have nothing to hold on for, you can pull as many of those little papers out. Then read them to help you reframe your unwanted and emotional thoughts.
The other option for how you can make this tool today and start using it to reframe your perspective brings more attention to your gratitude practice each day. Take one piece of paper and sit down and think of something that happened or someone who made your day worth being grateful for today. Once you have that in mind write in on your piece of paper then place it inside your jar, coming back every single day to do the same thing. Then whenever you would like come back and open your jar to read all the things you took the time each day to write down you were grateful for. You can go back in a week, at the end of the month, or what is common is to to wait until the end of the year on New Year’s Eve. Don’t forget either you can get creative and decorate your gratitude jar in any way you want as well bringing more joy to this daily practice of gratitude.
4. Express thanks to others in your life
For day 4 of this challenge to help us reframe our life with gratitude is to focus on expressing thanks to others in our life. Think about people that have done something for you at any point in your life. It can be today, yesterday, or even decades ago. Typically, people are grateful for their parents, guardians, caregivers, other family members, spouses, children, and friends. Let me remind you though that you don’t have to be grateful for people who have hurt you, even out of obligation or blood ties. (unless you want to be). So, think about those in your life that have held you up, supported you, and allowed you to grow into the beautiful human that you are. Then find a way to express your gratitude and thanks to them and do it. Whether that be by sending them a random text, getting them a card, or by giving them a gift. Do little and big things for them as they’d do for you. Spend quality time with loved ones. Connect and bond. Savor the moments you get to spend together. Don’t take any of it for granted because you never know how much time you have left with someone. So cherish it while you can. The goal is to make sure they feel your appreciation and how much your think they are truly worth. But, remember a simple “thank you” is usually enough for those who support you with their love. Plus it could also be a small act of kindness to brighten up someone’s otherwise dark day.
5. Prioritize and practice self care
When you practice gratitude you promote self care and end up prioritizing yourself. Because when you practice gratitude you are building a deeper connection with yourself. You are committing to self-awareness, self-reflection, and self-compassion and these are essential tools for supporting your personal growth, mental health and overall well-being. It allows you to truly connect with yourself on a raw, wholehearted level and changes your perspective on things. So, for day 5 of this gratitude challenge I want you to pick an activity that you consider self care and you are grateful you have the ability to do today. Then be as mindful and present as you can while you enjoy and soak up the time of self care you have today. Take in and notice how when you focus on self care it allows you to connect to parts of yourself and things you have to be grateful for in your life. For me when I slow down and focus on me it really allows me to open my eyes, and reframe what I see. Opening me up to more that I have to be grateful and thankful for. To learn more about self care and how vital that is in your life and how it promotes self love as well as gratitude click the link to read my guide here.
6. Spread gratitude through acts of kindness
For day 6 of this gratitude challenge we are going to use a little bit of DBT and bring our focus to gratitude by spreading it to someone else. Sometimes it’s hard to see what we can be grateful for because of life circumstances or our mental sate. If you are having a hard time in life or you are feeling anxious and/or depressed seeing things you can be grateful for may be clouded or something you simply don’t want to do. So, today we are going to use opposite action if we need to and instead of focusing on what we don’t have or what we have lost get out and spread kindness to bring us something to be grateful for. That feeling in our heart that glows and brings us joy plus the smile on the other person’s face is more then enough to be grateful for today.
For day 5 of the challenge today get out and give yourself something to be grateful for by being kind to others today. Spend 30 minutes doing something kind for someone else. This can be something extremely small like leaving a note on their doorstep, sending an email to thank them for all they do, making breakfast for someone, or volunteering your time. Do whatever it is that comes from the heart and makes you feel good inside.
7. Use affirmations of gratitude
For the last and final day of this challenge we are going to use simple yet very affective tool; gratitude affirmations. Gratitude affirmations are a simple tool you can use daily to help you see the beauty that life has to offer. So what are gratitude affirmations? Gratitude affirmations are positive statements that you repeat regularly to stay in wise mind and cultivate a mindset of gratitude. There are so many ways you can use gratitude affirmations in your life. For day 7 of this challenge pick one of the ways you feel called to use them below. Then pick some of the affirmations in the graphic to begin using today. I personally love to say mine out loud when I wake up in the morning and before I close my eyes at night.
Write them in your journal
Choose a new affirmation for each day of the week, then write it on a post-it note to keep by your desk
Choose 3 affirmations to focus on each day and say them out loud to yourself
Set up automated reminders on your phone so you get notified with an affirmation or multiple affirmations throughout the day
Get creative and draw or write an affirmation in your bullet journal
8. Bonus- Shadow work prompts for deepening your gratitude through journaling
Shadow work through journaling focused on gratitude and what we have to be grateful for can bring about a greater sense of contentment. It encourages you to see the glass as half full, which can have a profound impact on your attitudes and overall perspective of life. It brings you to a place where you are able to let of of fear and meet yourself and your life fully. When we journal and do shadow work based on gratitude it helps you become aware of all the goodness in your life. Even the things you may not see as things to be grateful for right now because they live deep within the shadows of your heart. If you would like to learn more about shadow work you can purchase my eBook here; you can book me for a 1:1 session as your guide here; and you can watch my free class previously taught on it through Divination here.
If you want to deepen your journey with gratitude beyond this challenge you can access these bonus shadow work prompts in my FREE shadow work journal here!
Final Thoughts
Showing appreciation for things doesn’t always look like journaling or making a gratitude list. Sometimes it can be as simple as making a language shift. So instead of saying “I have to do this” and feeling resentful or unexcited, change it to “I get to do this” for an instant positive mindset shift. Remember, you don’t “have” to do anything. No one is forcing you. You are the one in control of the choices you make. You “get” to do what you want to do, so feel excited and grateful for these opportunities and life you get to live each and every day.
Don’t forget to also be grateful for yourself! During this gratitude challenge make sure when you go through each day to include things that are only about you. Being grateful for yourself or anything about you is probably one of the hardest things to be grateful for. I know as a childhood abuse and trauma survivor it is for myself. So, if that is please make sure to make this part a priority. No matter how you feel about yourself or how someone else made you feel. There IS something about yourself that you can find to be grateful for. You just have to look for it. Use this challenge to find it and bring it to light in appreciation.
It’s true what they say: gratitude really does have the power to transform your world. Give it a try, and you might just find yourself, like me, realizing that gratitude was one of the missing pieces all along.
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